Auckland -- curious looking for a frot mate

I'm straight-identified, 55, slim but had one frot experience with a guy last year and it was the most sensual experience I've ever had. I'm into man2man sex and would love to meet a guy with a similar interest for ongoing meet . . . naked. I'm not looking for anything more. Must be clean discrete and safe. Genuine replies only.

Daa D

Auckland frot buddy

I'm looking for a frot buddy in Auckland CBD. I'm 43, physically fit and totally into sensual frot.



Dunedin guy, 40, not into any of the cruel "gay stereotypes" in any way, shape or form, nor scene, seeks a guy, who is emotional, loving caring, DTE, but with a sense of adventure, and no attitude. I'm blue collar and most happily would get on best with another guy of the same. I have never been into anal, or receiving oral, giving it I can take or leave. For me, the nicest thing is to explore the contours of the body of the person for whom you have strong affection, I have a thing for legs (especially in short workman's/sport shorts!) and butt cheeks (not spread apart, as I'm not into rimming) to rub and kiss.

I'm open to what might happen, a buddy to see regular, with or without romantic involvement, though ultimately I'd like to fall in love. If you are essentially straight , whatever that is, and need lots of love given and returned, going out together, be it a walk, a movie, or just someone to come home to for a cuddle and kiss, then please write and we can see if there is chemistry there. For most of my life I've missed out on what I see people around me have for granted every day, someone to go home to after a days work, cook a meal together, sit in front of a DVD, then a night of cuddles and a peaceful sleep, and recharge before waking up to them and off to another days work. And on weekends, things like breakfast in bed. I'd be so happy to do this for the right guy.

My interests include classic aircraft, geology, photography, music (mostly 60s to 80s) and travel. This country (especially my region) has a wealth of little opportunities to go into the countryside; its been hard to see everyone else as couples be able to harness them whilst I miss out, and I'd like to change this for the better.

Oh, and if you shed many tears at titanic or pearl Harbor movies, (pity those two guys didn't get together!) then that's a chord of resonance.

Thank you.

Please note:

This is my proper email address:



I am after LTR, please contact me if you are moving from Australia to Wellington NZ. I am 38, slim and a fan of frottage, not at all into anal sex.




looking for a sports buddy during the day


looking for partner

I'm 56, masculine, into nature, plants, walking/trekking, music, astrology, painting, sport------am down to earth with a good sense of humour-----looking for a loving partner who is into frot and fidelity for a relationship where we both can continue to develop.
----drop me an email from anywhere in the world


Re: looking for partner

hi mate rob whakatane. into frot as well. im masc, hairy , reasonable bod, 54 yrs, like all aspects of man to man masc sex. . reply if you wish. cheers mate


New Plymouth, NZ

Any starters in NP? me

np dude

Rub yourself over me

Hey, I really would like to find a nice guy 18-30 in Auckland who'd like to frot with a cute 28yo. (That's me...) We'd kiss, touch and rub cocks until we cum over each other.

Hope to hear from someone soon...



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