Seeking a friend in Ridgefield area

Hi. I'm looking for a friend near my area who can spend some quality time with me. I'm 59, in great shape (6' tall, 175#, athletic body, hike/swim a lot, white, well educated, professional, honest and a good solid quality man). I'm married but that won't necessarily be an issue. Ideally, I'd like to meet a man who has similar attributes such as mine. Race is not an issue. Having an on-going relationship based upon mutual respect and consideration of each other's needs would be terrific. I am not interested in drugs, promiscuity or excessive alcohol. I hopefully will find what I'm looking for and anxiously await a positive outcome!


Looking for a cool frot bud near Glastonbury

Hey, just to be upfront I am a 28 yo male and happily engaged. I came across this site and found it fascinating: the whole experience and theory behind frotting is a passionate and emotional experience that seems it would enhance masculinity with the right person.

So I am writing to see if there is a powerful guy to share these type of experiences with. Let me know your thoughts, and see if we're a good fit!


Fairfield County front guy

i'm a 50 yrs young 6'1" 165 lbs 30" waist tall muscular slender naturally smooth in shape, i work out dance love to travel have a good laugh and independent. iso, tall muscular or just muscles in shape hairy a plus dude to have man to man front humping & grinding up against the wall then the bed or where ever else u want cause i'm into it and i want it. let's not forget kissing & squeezing bodies tight rolling over each other. race unimportant, interested? hit me up, no smokers please.

front guy

Fairfield County Married Looking for Same

I am a good looking straight white 53 year old triathlete living in Fairfield County. Married for 30 years, raised 5 children, Never have been with a man before, very much interested in the ways of frot. I am looking for someone who is looking for the same thing. No experience, must be extremely discrete, be in my age bracket (50's) (in a committed) marriage, be in great shape, no drugs, a non- smoker, and no diseases.

Please be willing to meet in person, no photo's necessary, and be located in Fairfield County.

Please tell me about yourself (please no one-liners), interested in a relationship thing further I am not able to host which could pose a problem possibly...

Fairfield County Guy

seeking a frot buddy in Fairfield County

Are you a straight or straight/bi curious guy interested in frottage? If so, please read on.

I am a 35 year old white male, good looking, clean cut, 5'11" and 185 lbs with brown hair, hazel eyes, and a medium build. I have a 6" cut cock.

I am straight and have never been with a guy before, but I am very interested in frottage and seeking a frot buddy.

Please reply to this ad only if you meet the following criteria:

You are straight or straight/bi curious (I would be more comfortable with someone like myself than with someone who is is gay)
You are under 40
You are 100% clean and D/D free
You are in decent shape and trim
You have an average size (5" to 7") cock
You are willing to meet in person without exchanging photos (discretion is a must)
You are located in Fairfield County and able to meet mid-day

Please tell me about yourself and your experience (if any) with frottage. Also please let me know if you are able to host.

Stamford XXX

Looking for CT frot buddy

Hey guys, just found the site and was really excited because I'm a str8 guy who's had a frot fantasy for quite some time, with no outlet to speak of. 26 y/o wm, long black hair, goatee, totally shaved, 6" cut, 5'9", 220 lbs, built thick and muscly (no gut, but a little extra meat) looking for frot buddy close to my own age. Hope your're out on the forum somewhere!


Regular bud

33, 6ft, 180, brn/brn, 6in cut looking to get back into rubbin, Middletown area


Any Married Frot Bros. Out There?

I am looking for a philosopher/hero bud who is married, midlife and committed to their hetero relationship. I would like to meet over a couple of beers to ponder the ironies of life and the Alliance paradigm of male sexuality. Discussion leading to experimental trials of this paradigm are possible, but not a given. I live midstate in the Connecticut Valley.



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