New Orleans masculine ex military looking for ltr or regular bud who is also into man to man frot and mutual j/o

49 yo wm looking for ltr or regular bud who is also into man to man frot and mutual j/o. Am masculine ex military divorced. 6'3 210lb 33w.

Am honest and open guy who fits no stereotype. I like being a man and enjoy the company of men. Would be great to find an ltr with someone who enjoys like I do for what this Alliance stands for.

Live in New Orleans and would like to find a guy who also shares the same.


Looking4FrotLTR in Louisiana and Globally

My name is Dennis. I'm a good-looking, fit, active guy, 6.0' 185 lbs, who strongly believes in the principles of this site. I love frotting, massage, kissing and lots of body contact. I have a 7.5", thick, cut, well-endowed cock and would enjoy another endowed man. I am looking for a monogamous LT relationship and will consider living in another location either full-time or part of the year. I own a comfortable home and have lots of friends. I lead an active life Zydeco dancing, French language, singing in a choir, traveling, nature walks, anything outdoors, my dogs, writing plays, two novels, and some short stories. I prefer someone who is healthy, HWP, active, HIV-, and financially secure. Race is unimportant. Drop me a line from any corner of the world.


Frot buddy in Houma

I am looking for an LTR Frot buddy in Houma. I am 5'9", 225 smooth, hazel eyes, brownish blonde hair, chubby not sloppy. I have been in a relationship for 9 years and my girlfriend understands my situation and is very supportive. We both require discretion and safety be the #1 priority.


Hammond frot buddy

happily married, but happened upon this site out of curiousity (have long-held fantasies that didn't fit the typical gay/bi stereotype) you guys present what i've fantasized about for the majority of my life.

i'm with ya in that if i want 2 be with a woman (wife) i'm totally turned on being with her, both physically and mentally...but really interested in being with another dude, but was always so turned off by the anal/dom/sub thing. thanks for posting this site...its awesome to realize that i am not alone in these fantasies....i'd like 2 meet a nice normal dude for some "frot" fun


N.O. man seeking long-term, monogamous, warrior

I am a 50 yo GWM, educated, professional, and somewhat shy. I've had 2 very long-term relationships and have never been promiscuous. Until stumbling upon this site, I believed there was something wrong with me for not liking anal sex. Thankfully, now I know I'm not alone, and that the passion and pleasure of frottage, mutual j.o., and oral play can serve to express the deepest feelings of man-to-man love. I've been celibate for the past year or so (since the dissolution of my last LTR). If you are able to relate to my brief message; if you are looking for a monogamous LTR; if you identify yourself as a gay male; if you are in good health, like the outdoors, exercise regularly and eat sensibly; if you would like to start off slowly with a witty, compassionate, good-looking guy who believes strongly in the value of committed relationships, let's talk.


LA Guy Lookin' for Lovin' relationship

Hey Guys. Ive been into frot for a while now and have done it a few times in the past. Im looking for a bit more serious relationship. Im 21, 5'11", 160 lbs. I've got blue-green eyes and dirty blonde hair. E-mail me. I'm in the New Orleans area.



looking for a buddy for a cockfight. 6'3", 190, 39yo, hairy chest. lets talk.


NATCHEZ Looking For A Partner

I live in Natchez, MS, which is almost in Louisiana, and am looking for a frot partner who isn't overly hairy, and who has lesser stats than my own, which are 6'0", 205 lbs. I'm 49 years old. Age and race aren't a factor to me. I like erotic "rasslin" with no real pain prior to a frot session, with exchanges of being on top during a "match" to equalize things. Would love to find another man interested in making it a long-term thing if we get along well in and out of the bedroom. I am gay, not bi, unattached, and straight looking/straight acting. I can travel sometimes, and would like for you to be able, also. If interested, please write me and lets discuss things to see if we might be compatible in our thinking and get together.



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