StL Mo Man2Man embrace

Seeking that 1 LTR, yet discreet for a fit active and muscular Frot man. I have always desired a real masculine sensual relationship with strong physical bonds. The anal scene is totally unnatural to me. Man2Man action with lots of body contact, strong embraces and affectionate kissing has always been a desire of mine. Always thought there had to be anal and that has pushed me away from seeking manly companionship. Looking to be friends first and foremost with physical love as an outgrowth. Can't think of anything more erotic than being in the arms of a man who appreciates his manliness. Im 58 fit active and muscular, 5'11 180 and enjoy exhausting workouts. My fantasy is to follow up that workout with a sensual shower with cock to cock grinding and strong embraces. I want to finally have that close man to man contact that I have always yearned for.


Frot bud in Missouri

Hi there, live in the St Louis area. 58, 5' 10", 195 mod hairy, looking for a frot bud in the St Louis area. Enjoy the closeness only two men can have grinding cocks and mouths together fun. If interested, email me.



Hillsboro Man2Man

60 yr old guy, 5'9", 175lbs, decent shape, good looking. Inexperienced with male/male but really interested in the concept of non-penetrative same sex. I would like to find a frot friend that's on the same page.


21st Century Renaissance Man Looking for You!

Hi, guys! I'm 49, 6'2", about 300 lbs, 56" chest, 46" waist, size 13 shoe, dark blond hair, blue eyes... NOT centerfold material! [wink] Yeah, I'm a big masculine guy... sort of a gentle bull. I have hundreds of interests from ice hockey and bowling to cooking a great meal, beer, and a good old movie. Whatever happened to the idea of dating and getting to know a guy before hopping into bed?

That said, I've been lucky enough to have had several LTRs (the longest lasting 13 years), and I miss the intimacy and affection two men can have for each other. I'm still confident that I can find it one more time.

If any of this even sounds vaguely interesting to you, be brave; be a man; say hello. What the hell, we could both be pleasantly surprised.



I'm right on the border of Kansas City, MO.

MWM looking for Married Male

MWM looking for married male in SW MO. 6' 200lbs, average/athletic build. Seeking educated, responsible, honest guy thats able to be sensual and vulnerable as I am. Located in SW MO. Cannot host but have a very flexible schedule and can meet about anytime. Haven't done the frot thing since I was a teenager ... but has always been in the back of my mind. Would like to get to know each other and build an intimate friendship and the let nature take its course. Drop me a line and we'll discuss further. Look forward to hearing from you. Thanks!

Pee Boo

Jefferson City black jock seeks frottage partner

Professional, athletic man of color, 5'11", 180#, 8.5" cut thick, seeking a regular frottage partner to get together with. Can host or travel. Especially like to frottage in tight and/or worn jeans, jockstraps and nude. Discretion assured. Pics for trade before meeting. Contact me........friction leads to fire....let's burn it UP!!!



I know I'm not everyone's "cup o' tea", since my stats are 53yo, 6'1", 320 (not slender but a "firm" chub);and ya gotta give me credit for being brave enough to be honest about myself.

I was doing frottage before the word "frottage" was invented (I think). Bill posted my personal story at So Alone in My Love: A Missouri Warrior Speaks

I still love frottage. There is nothing like it; but because I'm "big" I guess this is a turn off to the kind of guys that I'm attracted to which is my opposite. Surely there is someone close by who is more slender in build that is into a guy like me, around my age or younger who is into frottage(??). Even us older, bigger guys still have... dare I say it.... desires; so c'mon... email me guys! Let's get hard, hot and frot!!!! Grrrrr


STL Muscular/Hairy Looking for Frot Buddy

St. Louis muscular, athletic, young looking, masculine 40's prof. BiWM, moderately hairy, passionate, seeking no strings, down to earth frot buddy for man to man body contact, J/O, and massage. Short, with thick 7 incher.

New at this. HWP, D/D free, non-smoker a must. Hairy, ethnic, younger a plus. Bi, masculine preferred. Married OK. Must be discrete. Hope to hear from you.


JOPLIN frot buddy

I am a chubby male who is so surprised that there are others who love this also. I would love to meet a frot buddy around the Joplin, MO and surrounding areas. my email address is


st.louis on occasion

looking for a masculine fort bud to hang with on occasion in the st.louis area ,34 6ft 170 cowboy with big bulge ,have pics availible


older man wanting to try

I am 5'5'', 148 lbs, clean shaven, little hair, wanting to play safe and frot. Not into the bar scene


St Louis Frot Bud Wanted

Hi guys, I have been into frot since before I knew what it was called. Really like that M2M contact and mutually sharing the experience of cumming together. 41 5'8" 165 clean cut masculine in pretty good shape, discreet, D/D Free and can host occaisionally. Email me and lets enjoy the Princeton Rub together. Thanks



Smooth, in-shape, masculine guy from St. Louis area looking for a similar guy for frot buddy and LTR I'm 5'6", 145 lbs., brown hair, clean-shaven, 42 y/o


Southeast Missourian searching for a Hero.

Just ran across these websites praising frottage. I had no idea there was such an interest, I thought I was just really different.


faithful and true to my one and only

Seeking a frot mate to love and hold in the 314 area code.


KANSAS CITY - 39 y.o. seeks bodybuilding frotbro

Hey men. I'm 39, brown hair with some silver, thinning on the crown, bluegrey eyes, good looking, 5'11", 190 lbs., work out. 44" chest, 38" waist, 14.5" bi/tri, 24.5" quad/ham, 16" calf. I have a love of muscle, and I'm looking for a Hero into bodybuilding, muscleworship (don't worry, we know we're equals!) muscleplay, mutual massage, wrestling, cuddling, frot, and companionship. I'm looking for a man who is intelligent, hardworking, gentle, with a good sense of humor, and willing to explore life with a bro who wants to watch him grow! I'm a coffeehouse, artflick, sushi kind of guy, who wants to keep learning about the world I live in, growing a healthy, sexy body, and manifesting my authentic self. Flex for me, stud!


573 Area

Just looking for a bud to get to know.. If interested shoot me an e-mail......21yrs, Brn hair and eyes. Athletic build, 23, 5'10", 165



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