Wrestle and Frot Buddy

I am new to this but have always wanted to wrestle and/or frot, safely and casually. I am 39, in good shape, 5'11", 165 lbs., 6.5 inches, some hair on the chest, highly educated and very nice. Email me and we can talk, exchange pics and see where it goes.


Looking for passionate Frot buddy and ltr. Downtown Jersey City

Looking for passionate Frot buddy and for ltr. 39 yo, 160 lbs, 5'7, Asian in downtown Jersey City. Can host.



Hi guys . . . I am 43 5'9", 160, 32" waist guy with moderately hairy body and thin, trimmed goatee. Looking for "the one" . . . sensual and passionate guy to share man2man masculine sensual sexual experience with. I have not done any anal and am not interested in it. Passionate sensual kissing and cock2cock frottage is what I am looking for . . . can go for long sessions of that. I can not host so we can come up with some ideas if you can't either. Good hygiene is MUST . . . please. Again, looking for one ongoing discrete frott/make out buddy.

Email me and we'll take it from there.

Deep Breath

Essex County looking for str8 bud to explore frotting

im 25 m nj straight, in essex county, white, 5'8 160 athletic. just looking for a consistent str8 bud to watch some porn with and explore some frotting with. nobody older than 30 please. i have pictures to trade and also have skype. email me at


Cock versus cock

23m from north nj looking to go cock for cock with another phallic warrior. I'm 5'4" Hispanic with a 6-6.5" cock. Willing to send pics if you have some too.

I'm willing to travel almost anywhere in nj and a lil in New York. Trying to do this as soon as possible. If you are interested and like a good challenge feel free to email me. Please provide a subject that's related to this as well as info. Pics would be nice too.

Can't wait to go head to head:P

Cervantes Doe

South Jersey

Seek discrete mwm for safe and sane frontal play. Mid 50s, clean cut 5'10", 7" cut. Not into anal or kissing. Uncut would be exciting, Let me know about you and you're interested in m4m play. Would like semi regular encounters if we seem compatible.

sean rush

Looking for a guy in central nj

I am 55 years old, nice guy, chubby, good sense of humor, about 7 inches, with a very high sex drive. I have never been with a man before. I just found the frot site and am interested in finding a friend who would be interested in mutual masturbation and cock rubbing on a regular basis.


North New Jersey Frot

I'm 21 years old. 6'1, 220lbs, 5"uncut. I just came to learn about frottage and think it is the most sensual thing two men can do. I am not into any anal and this seems so right that I'm looking for someone to enjoy this with. I'm from North New Jersey and will travel within reason. Anyone at all, please feel free to respond. Don't count yourself out without at least reaching out to me.

Email me at


I hope this can be the start of something special.



Intense Makeout/Frot Buddy

Fit goodlooking discreet businessman 39 5'11" looking for masculine buddy

for slow intense makeout/frot sessions behind closed doors...


North Jersey ltr frot buddy

Single male looking for a ltr frot buddy who is endowed extra large in North Jersey but can travel. Im 5'11" 170 tone body and 35 with 8c kinda thick.


New Jersey man Seeking intense Frottage

I'm an inshape, cleancut 50yo, 5'9" not a smoker, no drugs/diseases here. Blond/blue eyes, and handsome.

I'm in need of a Long term frot buddy. Please enjoy long passionate intense frotting, kissing, sensual body touching, and foreplay.

Oral/jo too.

Be inshape and healthy.


Senior Frot Buddy So Jersey Near Philly

Hi Guys, masc husky smooth senior guy looking for same in south jersey near Philly. Looking for another senior into frot. Can't host here hoping you can. Email me back if you are interested.



Haddonfield LTR

Mid-50s guy in very good shape looking for LTR with a frot buddy = love to roll around, hug and rub cocks.


SJ/Philly area cock2cock bud

36 - 6, 220, bl/bl cleancut masculine...not far from burlington area.


Central Jersey cock2cock bonding

Middle age Central Jersey Guy looking for someone for a general friendship with cock2cock bonding. No anal! No oral!


Mddlsx BM looking for intimacy and monogomy

Hello I am new to this but would like to post a message in hopes of finding a life partner. I am from New Jersey and looking for someone within 60 miles of Perth Amboy between 35-60 years old.

GBM 47 5'6 185 Stocky shaved head and mustcahe, looking for friend/life partner 35-56 years old within 60 miles of Perth Amboy, NJ to share a life of intimate moments and lots of laughs.


SBM Seeking friendship or more

Jersey City, SBM 32yrs. 5'6", 150lbs, dark skin, D&D free seeking similar into frot/foreplay for friendship or more if we have chemistry. Looking for a guy around my age. "Fun" is cool, but even cooler if we can be friends. contact me

Send a pic if you want a response. Not into games or e-mail tag.



Frot Buddy

Divorced corporate exec 40 5'11" looking for a cool masculine buddy to bond with some intense frot/makeout sessions.


Central New Jersey Frot friend

Hello. I live in Central New Jersey. I am 42, masculine, athletic, good gym build, into working out and some sports, wrestling too. I think this site is great and I hope to find someone who thinks the same. A guy to meet, hang with, maybe develop something, and most of all, try this for the first time. Hoping to meet another masculine, fit, athletic guy. Thanks.


NEWTON Frot bud

Im a married, 35yo, 6ft, 185, white guy, 6in cut.
Im looking for a regular buddy my age or younger for daytime rubbing fun. If your interested, please email me.

Hope to hear from ya!


PRINCETON / BUCKS for long term frot buddy or LTR

I live in the Princeton/Bucks area looking to meet another guy into the frot lifestyle. I'm 31, 5'10", 155, with dirty blonde hair. I like wrestling and being outside. Ideally, I'd like to meet a long term frot buddy or LTR.


Looking to date someone like me!

Are you basically only into frot and kissing and have a hairy chest, do you have a kind smile and warm eyes, are you a great listener, do you have a belief in god or some greater loving power that you try to connect with daily, are you a kind soul, are you affectionate, are you interested in activities outside the bedroom as well as inside (movies, walking, visiting friends/family, traveling, etc.), are you open if things workout between you and someone to settling down and living under the same roof ... if you live in the Bergen, Passaic, or Essex County area we should have at least have a first date, don't you think?

Please get in touch.


Alex :)

Looking for buddy in central jersey

Hi Guys...looking for a frot buddy in the central (ocean County) area. 46, 240 lbs looking for another man to be naked and close to. Frot only, no anal or oral. Friendship a plus too!


new to frot

hey there 22 years old from the cape may area looking for a frot buddy. get back to me.



Central New Jersey, Bridgewater, looking for another decent guy for some play. I'm looking for safe, discreet, drug & disease free. Someone who is slim to athletic, late 20's to 40. Interested in touching, body to body, underwear frot. Would like to find a regular buddy for frot relationship. Contact me if interested.





Looking 4 a frot buddy in bergen

Hi there, 33 asian 5'9 160# 33w brown eyes blk hair looking for a frot buddy. I am glad that I have found this site...I really feel at home here. By the way, I do not like anal, but I do like the cock 2 cock pleasure very much with hot and passionate kissing in it. Thanks.


Hudson/Bergen 4 intense eye-2-eye frot

41 y/o masc fit jockstrap fan looking for daytime frot fun. Work nights. Former cop, former married. Your place is best -- my k9s don't like people much!


NJ looking for LTR

31, 5'9", 160, smooth latino-asian guy, muscular, 32 waist, 45 chest, gay but straight acting, laid back, intelligent professional...seeking guy for exclusive LTR who is into passionate one-on-top-of-one dick-to-dick grinding as the primary form of sexual gratification.


SOUTH JERSEY / PHILLY looking for an inshape bud to frot with in south jersey/philly

hey guys - looking for another inshape dude to share mutual massage and dick to dick grinding - not into any oral or anal so this site sounds awesome. Thought i was the only guy who did not like oral or anal but loved the feel of another dudes bod and dick - been trying to find a reg bud - but most guys are into anal or oral - or are too old, out of shape, or feminine

i am in south jersey - got pics on http://www.bigmuscle.com - search on id number 30276

i am married so discretion and safety are the utmost to me - and naturally i dont have a place. Would need pics to share if we wanna meet and current ones - not a pic of when you u use to be in shape - been burned to many times - and guys if you aren't masculing or st8 looking please dont say you are - no offense but i am not into it - so please dont lie - i dont wanna hurt anyones feelings



VGL Italian In Shape, 35 yo for cock2cock rubbing in Southern NJ

Just found this site... very good looking Italian guy here, 35 yo, brown hair, blue eyes, 5'10", 7.5" cut, thick, 175lbs -- in shape -- looking for frot bud ... into kissing, some oral, j-off, cock on cock/balls on balls passionate grinding/rubbing till we both cum... email me:



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