Cean

Re: A straight man who loves men

8-26-2006

I am a 32 year old gay man and I have also just discovered this site. Reading the stories and contemplating what is being suggested here has inspired me, captured my thoughts and set me free...

I always felt like a freak because anal was a turn off for me and I'm gay, (I'm supposed to like it). I have always longed for innocence and a deeper spiritual connection with other males. Innocence, purity and love were always a turn on for me. Labels and brainwashing weren't. Who would have thought that holding a mans hand, looking into his eyes and feeling his soul, that you could get more turned on then you have ever been just from that? How about an amazing friendship being a turn on? These are things that I value...

It's what is attached to the dick that makes it sexy. The whole package - not just a penis with a life support system.

Back to the subject. Isn't this what we are talking about here? Two men being together in innocence and love with no pressure and no guilt? Free to exchange male energy, passion and ecstacy with each other?

I am gay but no longer want a label. I wish to be de-labeled for ever more and simply be a man that loves other men. A warrior and a REAL man.

Warmest regards to you all... My passion, my thoughts and my light is with all of you...

Cean

Bill Weintraub

Re: A straight man who loves men

8-26-2006

Thank you both Jake and Cean.

Here we have two guys.

One says:

"I'm straight, but I have always been attracted to men."

I am a 23 year old married man. Happening upon this site has opened my mind to a whole different concept. I have always been attaracted to men. Our bodies are good looking....what can I say. My whole life I have tryed to internalize my attaraction so that I didn't come accross as gay. But the concept that men are men and can be attracted to eachother without being "effeminate" is awsome. I love my wife she is a great partner and I love haveing sex with women (not anal). But I also am attracted to men, and have had some experiences with them when I was younger. I was kinda ousted form my gay friends as a child because if could not stand the thought of anal sex and would refuse. I don't like shit on my meat.

The other says:

"I'm gay"

I always felt like a freak because anal was a turn off for me and I'm gay, (I'm supposed to like it). I have always longed for innocence and a deeper spiritual connection with other males. Innocence, purity and love were always a turn on for me. Labels and brainwashing weren't. Who would have thought that holding a mans hand, looking into his eyes and feeling his soul, that you could get more turned on then you have ever been just from that? How about an amazing friendship being a turn on? These are things that I value...

It's what is attached to the dick that makes it sexy. The whole package - not just a penis with a life support system.

Back to the subject. Isn't this what we are talking about here? Two men being together in innocence and love with no pressure and no guilt? Free to exchange male energy, passion and ecstacy with each other?

I am gay but no longer want a label. I wish to be de-labeled for ever more and simply be a man that loves other men. A warrior and a REAL man.

So:

After experiencing these sites and our Man2Man Alliance, the straight-identified guy says "My whole life I have tryed to internalize my attraction [to other guys] so that I didn't come across as gay. But the concept that men are men and can be attracted to each other without being "effeminate" is awesome."

And the gay-identified guy says, "I am gay but no longer want a label. I wish to be de-labeled for ever more and simply be a man that loves other men. A warrior and a REAL man."

So these guys, HELPED BY EACH OTHER AND BY ALL THE OTHER MEN WHO HAVE POSTED AND DONATED AND MADE THESE SITES A REALITY -- have figured something out:

That those gay-straight labels are meaningless.

That what matters is being a MAN.

As Cean says, "A warrior and a REAL man."

Here's what my foreign friend said about this in THE POWER OF THE MASCULINE:

The fact of the matter is that 'straight' actually means 'masculine'. It is only that the west has for long propagated 'heterosexuality' as masculine, so that today it is seen as being synonymous with 'straight'.

Again, the real meaning of 'queer' is feminine, although it is used interchangeably for 'gay'.

You should also know that the word 'homosexual' and later 'gay' was originally used for feminine identified males who were believed to be feminine on account of their desire for men.

So this is a question of MASCULINITY.

And of NATURAL MASCULINITY.

Cean understands that, because he says:

Isn't this what we are talking about here? Two men being together in innocence and love with no pressure and no guilt? Free to exchange male energy, passion and ecstacy with each other?

"Innocence and Love"

"Male energy, passion, and ecstasy"

"with no pressure and no guilt"

NATURAL MASCULINITY is profoundly innocent.

And profoundly loving.

NATURAL MASCULINITY is about "Male energy, passion, and ecstasy."

"With no pressure and no guilt"

For far too long, under heterosexualization, MEN have been trapped in a lie.

It's a social lie, a cultural lie.

In which masculinity is linked to sex with women, and men who acknowledge their feelings for other men, as do both Cean and Jake, are shunted off to a gay ghetto, where they're expected to behave like pseudo-women.

That lie, that stinking miserable lie about Masculinity, has deprived and continues to deprive MASCULINE MEN of what they most need:

The "Innocence and Love," the "Male energy, passion, and ecstasy," which can only be theirs in a phallically-bonded relationship with another Naturally Masculine MAN.

Only in Phallic Bond, only in true WARRIOR BROTHERHOOD, can MEN find their TRUE, REAL, NATURAL, MASCULINITY.

Remember what Naked Wrestler has said:

IT'S NOT WHAT MAKES YOUR DICK HARD

THAT MAKES YOU A MAN

IT'S YOUR WILLINGNESS TO FIGHT

Why do we keep talking about that?

Because, as my foreign friend said, "Fighting spirit is the hallmark of Masculinity."

Fighting spirit.

A natural part of the Naturally MASCULINE MAN.

Guys -- these two posts, separated by five months, from a man who was once "straight" and another who was once "gay," is what this ALLIANCE is about.

MEN HELPING OTHER MEN TO FIND THEIR MANHOOD.

MANHOOD.

MANHOOD.

MANHOOD.

Manhood, which is theirs by right of birth and which has been stolen from them by a LIE.

We helped Cean and Jake find their MANHOOD.

But guys, we could be helping so many more.

There are literally millions of Ceans and Jakes out there who NEED and ARE READY to hear our message.

WILL YOU HELP THEM?

WILL YOU HELP FREE YOUR BROTHERS?

And in so doing, FREE YOURSELF?

WILL YOU?

HELP THEM.

HELP US.

HELP YOURSELF.

FIGHT BACK.

FIGHT THE LIE.

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Bill Weintraub

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