Bill Weintraub

Re: you've given me back a piece of myself i thought i would lose

5-23-2010

Hey Dan,

Thank you for this terrific letter.

Let's take a look.

Bill, My name is Dan. I am totally enthralled with your philosophy.

Dan, that's great!

Every single m/m relationship I've ever been in has died because although I am very attracted to them, I can't bring myself to be penetrated.

Dan, I'm sorry that you've had the experience of losing relationships; but the fact that you don't want to be penetrated speaks very well of you.

Its never been right with me.

And that too speaks well of you.

Until I saw your website I thought there was something seriously wrong with me.

No.

There's something seriously wrong with the gay subculture, which we call analism -- but there's nothing wrong with you.

Ck out, for example, this post, which speaks to many of those issues.

I've learned SO much... Thank you for what you do.

Dan, you're very welcome.

I'm glad we can be here for you.

Its given me back a piece of myself i thought i would lose.

I understand.

Dan, don't ever let that piece of yourself, as you put it -- be lost.

Because then you would be lost too.

Bill Weintraub

It's amazing, isn't it guys, how eager the males -- the buttboys -- of gay subculture are for pieces of their alleged fellow "gay" men -- to be lost.

To be excised, and chopped off, and castrated -- so that they're no longer the Men they were when they entered that subculture.

But that's the point after all.

The subculture doesn't want Men.

It finds Men threatening.

As does the larger society.

It wants -- "gays."

Compliant, complaisant, "gays," who'll bend over whenever and wherever they're told.

Just as the larger society no longer wants citizens -- it wants employees, and most of all, consumers, who will dutifully spend spend spend so the economy can grow grow grow.

Again, there's a connection between the culture of greed, growth, and pain, and the subculture of raunch, kink, and sleaze, of anal, promiscuity, and effeminacy.

The problem is that both cultures are very powerful.

Which is why Dan says that his discovery of our MAN2MAN Alliance, gave him back "a piece of myself i thought i would lose."

The piece of himself he thought he would lose, was, of course, his Manhood.

And he probably would have lost it.

Because the cultural pressures upon him would simply have been too great.

Fortunately, he found us before that happened.

And he's now posted in Frot Club -- where, I hope, he'll meet a great guy.

But we need to be clear about just how great the pressures are on guys like Dan -- and how close Dan came to losing something -- without which he couldn't live.

Bill Weintraub

May 23, 2010

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