Full Frontal Desires
Full Frontal Desires
5-28-2004
Having tried anal sex just the once, I decided it was not for me. I had never had a masturbation fantasy about anal, and when I played with other boys in my early teens, we played with each other's cocks, not butts. So I never had much inclination towards anal, but that's all some guys seemed to know about. Luckily, most of the men I've met have not insisted on anal, although some have asked if I did it.
But it is so much more natural for me to go for full frontal contact with my lovers. I've been practising frottage all my life without even knowing the word, and I'm in the postition of one who's suddenly realised they've always spoken prose.
The full frontal contact I crave isn't just cock-to-cock - a rather limited term for what really happens. The best sexual encournters I have had were face-to-face, lips to lips, chest to chest, belly-to-belly, sex to sex, thigh to thigh and knee to knee. They might invovle elements of massage, wrestling or dancing together, wih rich sexual overtones to all these activities.
What sort of communication can you have with a lover when you can only see the back of his head, or he yours?
The act of rubbing or humping each other's sex with our own sex is particularly powerful for me and the stuff of dreams and fantasies - luckily reality too on occasions. For me, it takes the idea of mutual masturbation to its ultimate, and I'm so pleased I've done it while being fondly cuddled by my lover.
Nicholas
Re: Full Frontal Desires
6-2-2004
Just a vote of assent -- face to face, mouth to mouth, chest to chest, belly to belly, cock to cock, thigh to thing, intertwined feet.
Oh, the great feeling of having two cocks -- his and yours! -- in your hand!
Ron
Re: Full Frontal Desires
6-2-2004
What more can I add. It's natural and it's normal and it curls your toes too!
David
Re: Full Frontal Desires
6-3-2004
You are right Nicholas!! Anal sex is all about selfish pleasure, not the pleasure of both partners. That's why, when chatting online, so many guys are obsessed with whether a guy is a "top" or "bottom". Even if sex may not be their priority, they greatly imply this with their rigid standards of what making love is. Even without frot, there's nothing better than having your naked chest next to another guy's and hugging! :)
--Andy
PS: Oh, I discovered a great new word for "analists" (people who like anal sex)..."brown-hatters!" This is mentioned in the movie/play by Jonathan Harvey, titled "Beautiful Thing". Frottage is also mentioned..check it out.
sabres
Re: Full Frontal Desires
8-10-2004
As you guys say, full frontal cock rubbing is a turn on. I came out in homophobic Texas where book stores were one of the few venues to meet a gay man. I remember rubbing cock with a tight cowboy in a booth through our 501's. Never touched cocks. Some of the hottest gay sex ever. Holding his butt tight, I forced my cock up and down on his. The friction mounted til we both exploded in ecstasy. The big wet spot didn't matter afterwards, something of a conquest.
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