Bill Weintraub

Re: Heroes United

1-12-2005

Hey Orlando

You're welcome.

And yes you are home -- true for you as it's been for tens of thousands of other guys who've found our sites and The Man2Man Alliance.

"With a large circle of gay male friends all of whom regularly practice anal sex - I am the lone wolf - or the unicorn as some call me (meaning that I am the last of my kind)."

Your friends are wrong.

You're absolutely not the last of your kind.

Rather you're in the vanguard of a new sexual revolution, one which offers men who love men true equality and true romance, a new m2m world in which masculinity is prized, Fidelity is honored, and sex is about genitals -- not anuses.

"Have always had a desire to engage in sex with other men on a face to face, chest to chest, cock to cock fashion."

That's true for all of us.

As Chuck Tarver says, Frot is at our erotic center.

Nothing more intense or true can occur between two men.

"Anal sex never factored into the equation for me. Have tried several times with no success to penetrate, but it just wasn't a turn-on. Knowing that there is a segment of the gay male population that enjoys erotic wresting, masculine play and cock to cock rubbing is a huge revelation for me."

That's great!

And remember we're not only gay male.

Many of us are bi and/or straight-identified men.

What unites us is that we're all Frot men -- guys into Frot.

"I now feel more empowered to tell potential sex partners exactly what turns me on."

That too is great Orlando and very important.

I hope as you explore the site and make friends here that sense of empowerment will grow.

And one way of telling potential partners what you're into is to add the words "Frot" and "member, Man2ManAlliance.org" to any profiles on sites like outinamerica or gaydar that you might have.

Doing that informs and educates and helps spread the word.

Thanks again for a great post Orlando!