Richie

Thanks for such an uplifting site

4-5-2004

An online buddy of mine sent me a link to your page, and I was so happy to learn that there are others like me out there.

Let me tell you a little about myself. I'm a 19 year old college student in Connecticut who thought for the longest time that because I was gay, I was a horrible person and I'd be expected to automatically like anal sex. In addition to that, because of my "straight" appearance and "straight" sounding voice, a lot of gay guys at my university out-casted me for not being stereotypical. (I've been told that I look like a bear cub and a "mountain man" ... whatever that is ... by a friend of mine). I am lucky though in the sense that I've got so many straight guy friends who don't give a shit about what turns me on sexually ... who just like me for who I am: an intelligent and friendly person.

But for the longest time I felt ashamed that I didn't like anal sex ... like I felt bad that I couldn't seem to make it feel good and that I wasn't really part of the gay community because I didn't. Since visiting your website, I have learned that there are lots of guys like me who just like JO and frottage.

So I just wanted to thank you for posting this information and helping me realize that I don't have to bend who I am to fit some sexual stereotype ... that I should be proud of who I am and should not be expected to do something I don't feel comfortable doing.

All the best,

Richie

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