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Crimes against nature



Bill Weintraub

Bill Weintraub

Crimes against nature

2-17-2007

When I was a boy, it was widely believed that "homosexuality" was a behavior found only among humans.

And was therefore "unnatural."

A crime against nature.

While I understood, even as a boy, that such an argument was flawed -- for there are, after all, many things which humans do which animals do not -- the "fact" that homosexuality was not to be found in the non-human, natural world, was for me crushing.

For it was the nature of my conception of my same-sex feelings, that I linked them with the natural world.

The great world of the out-of-doors and of natural phenomena -- the seasons, the weather, the wind, the sky, the sun moon and stars, plant and animal life -- and the great wild places in which these were best experienced.

There it was that I felt most free and most alive.

And when I thought of my intense and all-encompassing desire for a Warrior brother, I thought of it and of us in terms of Nature.

To me, we were to be creatures of the Wild -- natural male beings -- not something made in a city or suburb or town.

But Men who openly and freely expressed one of the most fundamental yearnings of the race -- to fight and love another of their sex.

Thus the idea of The Comradeship of Wounds: red blood, red love.

Within myself, I knew my feelings to be Natural.

Yet from without I was constantly told that they were not.

From science there was no solace -- only disparagement and despair.

You're sick, was the message -- evil and diseased.

Just look about you -- no one feels as you do.

No animal either.

Bulls and boars, stallions and bucks, roosters and rams -- these never show a desire for their own sex.

A dog might, but what is a dog?

A domesticated and promiscuous creature, the result of human meddling.

In the great pure world of nature, I was constantly reminded, such desires as yours do not exist.

They are UNNATURAL.

And those who seek to express them in the human world express only a crime against nature.

These ideas -- of the essentially unnatural and uniquely human nature of same-sex desire -- had and continue to have, I believe, a profoundly damaging effect on the lives of Men who Love Men.

Such ideas inevitably linked "homosexuality" with the city -- the vast and decidely unnatural megalopoleis which were beginning to spread across the US and the EU.

It was in these cities, far removed from contact with nature and the natural world, that the gay subculture emerged.

The males of that culture, having constantly been told that they were "against nature," sought to act in that way.

They rejected Masculinity for effeminacy; Fidelity for promiscuity; and Phallus for anus.

Indeed, the urban environment and of course the technological progress which had made that environment possible on such a vast scale, greatly facilitated those behaviors and that self-perception.

"Homosexuals" were seen as creatures of the city -- and of the city's artificially-lit night.

Creatures of the shadow.

When I came out in 1972, I joined the men of those cities.

Even though for me the urban environment was hostile.

But where else could I go to be "a homosexual?"

Since to be homosexual was to commit a crime against nature, one could not live naturally.

Now: The early gay rights movement emerged in the 1950s, Gay Liberation marched out of the ghettos in 1970, the gay male community and with it the concept of gay as ethnicity jelled in 1975; and AIDS appeared in 1981.

Indeed, in terms of the history of HIV, which certainly predates 1981, and which remains a dangerous and active force in human affairs, the years 1982-1995 are known as "The AIDS Era."

For that's when, in the post-industrial West, HIV did most of its killing.

And during that era, as had been the case for decades before, those who most closely and scientifically studied animal behavior continued to maintain that homosexuality was not seen among animals.

Until the mid 1990s.

When, with what felt like great suddeness, a spate of articles and then books appeared describing same-sex sex and "bonding" among animals.

Particularly among birds and mammals.

It turned out that ethologists had long known about "homosexual" behavior in the animals they'd studied.

But that they'd suppressed that knowledge.

Because they didn't want to get defunded; because they didn't want to be accused of being gay.

In short, and not to put too fine a point on it, because they were COWARDS.

And I mean it.

I am livid when I think of what these people did, and how they suppressed the truth.

TRUTH is what people need.

Not lies.

And not obfuscations.

And if, by virtue of study or place, you're in possession of the truth -- you need to let it and get it out.

Not keep it bottled up to protect your funding.

There are to this day people who do that about HIV, MSM, and masturbation.

They won't talk about it because they want to protect their funding.

Dr Chin is NOT one of those people.

He says, openly and plainly, in The AIDS Pandemic, that MSM need to look to non-penetrative sex;

and he gives the Alliance a footnote -- he says, see man2manalliance.org for more information on non-penetrative alternatives.

That takes some courage.

But -- and be that as it may -- we have now known for at least a decade that same-sex affection, same-sex bonding, and same-sex sex is not merely present among other mammals, but is common.

Arguably, it's the norm.

For, as my foreign friend has pointed out, most mammals are not "heterosexual" in the sense of spending most of their time with the opposite sex.

Rather, they have contact with the opposite sex just a few times in their lives for purposes of mating.

And that mating is very brief -- it occupies often just a few minutes.

Then they go back to either living alone or living in homosocial -- that is, same-sex -- groups.

My foreign friend:

If you look at mammals as a species in the wild, you will find that there is only sex for procreation --- which by itself does not characterise heterosexuality. Most mammalian males if they mate, do it only a few times in their lives. And a big segment does not mate at all.

And there is no bonding with females at all --- well barring a few exceptions (1%).

Male-female mating is extremely short --- sometimes as short as a few seconds. After which the male and female depart abruptly without as much as a 'goodbye' or a parting kiss --- which are characteristic of masculine behaviour in the west. The male and female usually never see each other again. I wouldn't call that heterosexuality.

And then, there is no evidence of a presence of sexual repulsion towards other males --- even in the few males who do develop what can be remotely termed as a bond with females.

On the contrary, latest research (by the likes of Bruce Bagemihl) reveal that male-male sex is a near universal concept amongst mammalian males (from 90% in some species to 100%).

In other words there is no heterosexuality in nature. At least not in mammals. There is some heterosexuality in some other species --- like in birds and insects (where it seems to be the norm if we are to believe the fruitfly study!), but humans are mammals not insects.

Which means that homosocial arrangements and same-sex sex, far from being an aberration, abnormal, anomalous, or unnatural, among mammals, are common and the norm.

That fact -- and that idea -- of its very nature MUST be upsetting to people in our contemporary culture.

For our culture teaches that "homosexuality" is restricted to a tiny minority -- less than 3% of men; and that everyone else is "straight" -- which means exclusively heterosexual.

And, you see, that's no good.

Because now human society is out of sync with nature.

And that will never do.

Enter Professor Roselli of Oregon Health and Science University.

According to an article in the New York Times, Professor Roselli asserts that about 8% of male sheep -- that is, rams -- do not seek to mate with female sheep, but "only" with other rams.

He wants to know why that is.

So he's been experimenting on them and killing them -- he says he kills about 18 a year -- in the name of advancing science.

Now in reporting this story, the Times recorded both the fact of the research, and the fact that it had touched off a lot of protest, from gay people, from groups like PETA, and from gay people who belong to groups like PETA.

PETA doesn't like the research because it doesn't like any research on animals, and sees this particular research as particularly egregious.

While the gay people are afraid that the professor will find a "cure for homosexuality" -- in which case their very existence would be threatened.

In its reporting, the Times -- and this should come as a shot across the bow to its gay allies -- was not real sympathetic towards the protesters.

The Times made clear, from the tone of the article, that it supports Free Speech, Free Inquiry, and of course, Science.

Let the facts fall where they may.

But that raises a lot of questions.

Professor Roselli presents his research as being culturally neutral.

Having NOTHING -- not even the slightest ittsiest-bittsiest thing -- to do with the raging debates and culture wars over "homosexuality."

No, no, he says, I'm a scientist, free of cultural bias, and I'm just trying to expand human knowledge.

In my experience, however, scientists are not free of cultural bias.

Maybe there's no cultural bias in fields like physics -- though I don't think even that is true;

but in my experience the closer the research is to some issue which concerns the politics and culture of human beings -- such as AIDS prevention and certainly such as sexuality -- the more bias there is.

So when someone like Dr Roselli says I'm free of cultural bias, and I'm just trying to expand human knowledge --

it begs the question -- why and to what ends?

Dare I say -- that the infamous Dr Mengele of Nazi German too wanted to expand human knowledge.

For purposes of eugenics -- of improving the Aryan race.

And actually, Dr Roselli says something similar -- though it's just about sheep.

Here's the Times:

The goal, he says, is to understand the fundamental mechanisms of sexual orientation in sheep. Other researchers might some day build on his findings to seek ways to determine which rams are likeliest to breed, he said.

Uh-huh.

But how pressing a question is the matter of which rams are likeliest to breed?

I mean, is there a sheep shortage?

Are we suffering from a deficit of wool?

Have there been dire predictions of "peak lamb" if we don't soon come to grips with the ram-breeding problem?

I mean, you know, aren't sheep doing just fine as is?

Then there was a press release from Dr Roselli's university -- that's the one with the rather Orwellian name of the University of Health and Science -- which asserted that the research

also has broader implications for understanding the development and control of sexual motivation and mate selection across mammalian species, including humans.

Oh.

I see.

"mate selection"

Well, why would we need to understand "the development and *control* of sexual motivation and mate selection across mammalian species, including humans" -- unless we wanted to do something about it?

Isn't that why we usually seek to understand such things -- so that we can -- influence them, as it were?

And what's Professor Roselli's personal interest in all this?

Where does he stand in the culture wars?

And how does he self-define?

Because what's implied in this research are certain societal assumptions -- that there are gay men and straight men, gay sheep and straight sheep -- and that the straight sheep are normal and the gay sheep are not.

Right?

Because those are the sheep he's studying.

The gay sheep.

Which STRONGLY IMPLIES that same-sex sex among sheep is an aberration, abnormal, and ipso facto UNnatural.

And which puts us RIGHT BACK where we were in my boyhood.

It's as though our heterosexualized society is saying -- we don't care what you learn about what is normal and natural for mammals or MEN -- we will always treat it as abnormal and aberrant and an anomaly.

And we'll try to figure out ways to change it.

Did I mention that this research is being funded by a grant from the National Institutes of Health?

Your tax dollars bro.

But hey, whatever you do, keep payin those taxes and -- don't support this site.

In discussing this with Jim S -- who wrote to deepen, not weaken, masculinity and society's procrustean bed, Jim said of this sort of research,

It damages all men -- it treats same-sex affection as an anomaly and in isolation and somehow curable.

That's correct.

It damages ALL MEN --it treats SAME-SEX AFFECTION as an ANOMALY and in isolation and somehow CURABLE.

Jim wondered

What percentage of rams show a partial interest in other rams?

Good question -- we don't know.

And said Jim,

re the researcher -- not only what does he do in bed, but what does he WANT to do in bed that he hasn't done?

How many men know that something is there but don't know what it is -- because we become so separated from our own inner selves?

Right.

"How many men know that something is there but don't know what it is -- because we become so separated from our own inner selves?"

How many men?

The effect of this sort of research is to damage those men.

To encourage them to remain separated -- divorced -- from their own inner selves.

Just as all the lies told about nature and sexuality when I was a boy had as their intent to SEPARATE ME from MY INNER SELF.

Somehow those lies didn't succeed.

I'm not sure why.

I can tell you though that to preserve my sense of self in the midst of those lies required a titanic struggle, a war of sorts, and that I did not -- no strongly same-sex attracted man of my generation did -- come out of that war unscathed.

It was damaging.

It took me a long time to see the Truth.

Professor Roselli, using the tools and vocabulary of science, claims to be involved in a quest for truth.

I don't believe him.

Because the effect of his research is to prop up our current societal notions of gay and straight.

Straight is normal.

Gay is abnormal.

And the two never cross.

Rams.

Of course there's the football team, but think Dodge Ram.

How many Dodge Rams are sold each year in the US?

300,000 maybe?

And how many men buy Dodge Rams because they associate the truck with what we call "cultural masculinity" -- that is, a highly heterosexualized cultural view of masculinity which makes a direct link between heterosexual prowess and manliness?

When in reality, Manliness and Masculinity have nothing to do with heterosexuality.

And what about Statius and his bulls?

I know that some of you think that Roman poetry is a waste of time.

But when the hero Polynices loses his brother-of-the-heart Tydeus to an enemy spear in battle, Statius compares the two men to BULLS:

So, when the colleague of his toil is lost,
A bull in numb despair leaves in mid-field
The furrow he's begun; the yoke's awry,
As one end on his drooping neck he bears
And one the ploughman shoulders, pouring tears.

The Romans then, who lived far closer to nature than do we, did not attempt to separate the love of man for man from the love of bull for bull.

Statius: a BULL who loses his comrade is left in "numb despair."

"numb despair"

I lost my first partner, and "numb despair" is a very apt description of what you feel.

But Statius is talking about BULLS.

He's talking about male bonding between BULLS.

Which when I was a boy I was told did NOT exist.

And which Dr Roselli would do away with -- if he could.

But only, you understand, for the good of the bulls -- so that they could breed better and have a higher quality of mate selection and sexual motivation -- that sort of thing --

and for the good of humanity too.

It wouldn't be done for any other reason.

Oh no -- not for any other reason.

This is scientific research after all, which is always undertaken for the common good.

Sometimes, in reading the newspaper -- more than sometimes I suppose -- I get the sense of living on a different planet from the reporter and the publisher and the actors in the story.

In the case of the gay sheep and the neutral researcher, everyone's assuming that homosexual and heterosexual are categories which in some way correspond to the real world.

They don't.

And the gay people in particular, though I agree with their outrage, clearly believe that their sexual orientation -- which is a chimera -- can be excised from their brains.

It cannot be -- at least not without destroying all sexuality.

If you subtract male-male desire from the male, what you get is NOT an exclusively heterosexual male -- what you get is a eunuch.

Redd says, we're all homo sapiens so we're all homo sexual.

He's making a play on words and he's correct.

Homo sapiens: Homo = man / sapiens = knowing

Homo sexual: Homo = same / sexual = sex

But if you look at the homo as man in the sense of "mankind," then Redd's absolutely right.

We're all homo sexual because we're all having sex within our species.

As are the sheep, by the way.

They too are having sex within their species.

So why the fuss?

Dr Roselli clearly thinks the rams are abnormal.

While the gay-identified people are afraid that if someone can identify a gene or a hormone which makes people "gay," that gene or hormone will be eliminated.

No.

In reality, you cannot divy up human sexuality the way both the gay community and the straight community have been trying to.

It's a fantasy.

Actually, not so much a fantasy as what used to be called a "folie a deux" -- a delusion shared by two people, or, in this case, two cultures, which act to at once collude with and confuse each other.

As I've said before, I don't like people studying "homosexuality" and "homosexuals" as though they were insects -- it outrages me -- and I'd have no hesitation in telling this professor so, and digging deep to find out his actual motive in doing this research.

But at the same time -- I have a hard time taking the research seriously.

I know that sounds at odds.

But it's like this.

The research outrages me -- even though, from my point of view, it's utterly goofy.

This is a letter I received a few weeks back -- the writer is a straight-identified guy who lives in a Southern state:

I found this site by accident. I got curious. I can't get enough of it. I did cock to cock a couple of times on campouts as a teen. I had a Frottage 22 years ago with a college buddy after too many drinks. We never spoke of it again but I've never been able to forget it. Now I'm 45, married, 2 kids. Love em. But I've always wanted to do this again.

I'm a masculine, southern man who lives in the Bible Belt. You can imagine the local taboos involved. I could care less about anal sex. Creeps me out. I would be paranoid about HIV anyway. I have a family to protect.

I live in a very masculine world. Hunting, fishing, golf. I really like all of that. I like masculine guys.

I spend a lot of time with those guys ... but none would be approachable.

I'd like to use your website to get some of them familiar with this idea. I have to tell you I get aroused in a big way knowing there are others who have the same feelings.

I figured there were others but I didn't know how to approach it. Now I can. I don't understand why, but the night after I viewed your site for the first time, my wife and I had the best sex in a long time. I came like a trojan.

Anyway, I would guess there are a lot a guys in my position that don't have options. I just have to figure out how to be discreet. A great website. I get hard every time I see it.

I have to tell you: The idea that regular guys could be intimate with regular guys aroused me more than anything I could have seen.

Thanks,

Joe

Joe said:

"The idea that regular guys could be intimate with regular guys aroused me more than anything I could have seen."

Right.

Regular guys with regular guys.

I wonder what Dr Roselli would do if he could get his hands on their regular guy brains.

Now: we know that Joe is not unusual -- to put it mildly.

His story is typical of the straight-identified men on this site and in the Alliance.

They have cock2cock experiences as teens and young adults.

They marry heterosexually -- and, usually, happily.

But they never forget those male-male, masculine, manly experiences of their youth either.

And they seek to have them again.

But they assume, as Joe does, that the masculine men of their acquaintance don't share their feelings.

Which is what the culture tells them to do: they confuse "heterosexual" aka "straight" -- with masculine.

Joe:

I live in very masculine world. Hunting, fishing, golf. I really like all of that. I like masculine guys.

I spend a lot of time with those guys ... but none would be approachable.

I pointed out to Joe that those men assume the same about him.

So what you've got is all these strong, masculine guys out there hunting and fishing and golfing together -- all shut up in their little shells, afraid to approach each other.

Which is how our heterosexualized society wants them to be.

As my foreign friend pointed out in his anecdote about the stallions, males are easier to control -- if they're prevented from bonding.

Then Joe says,

I don't understand why, but the night after I viewed your site for the first time, my wife and I had the best sex in a long time. I came like a trojan.

Gee.

Let's ask Dr. Roselli: Was it Joe's heterosexual lobe or his homosexual lobe which gave him that big orgasm?

Maybe the good doctor could stick some electrodes in Joe's brain -- and find out.

Now -- I titled this post "Crimes against nature."

Dr Roselli's research is, to my mind, such a crime.

The sheep are fine as they are.

Joe's fine as he is.

There's no need to study them -- particularly since in the process you end up killing them.

Suppose we started studying Joe -- who's having great sex with his wife while entertaining warm and affiliative thoughts about his buddies -- wouldn't we kill Joe too?

Haven't we -- we in the sense of society -- already de facto -- IN FACT -- killed Joe?

He's 45.

He's spent 22 years thinking about his last "Frottage" as he calls it.

Haven't we for all those 22 years forced him to be separated from his TRUE and inner masculine self?

I said -- his TRUE masculine self.

Not his socially-sanctioned exclusively heterosexual masculine self.

Which is FALSE.

But his TRUE masculine self.

His naturally masculine self.

His NATURAL MASCULINITY.

That's what's been killed off in Joe.

And isn't that a form of murder?

The murder of a man's masculinity.

And, you know, though I'm contemptuous of this research, it's difficult to escape the fact that the rams being killed are the rams who have sex with other rams.

If I had the means, I'd investigate Dr Roselli's life as deeply as I could, until I knew for a certainty what he was doing sexually and with whom.

I think if you did that you'd find that he was having sex with another guy -- or guys.

Sound far-fetched?

It's not.

That's what bashers do.

They use their bashing to cover up their secret sexual lives with men.

Which they think of as crimes against nature.

But they're not.

I'd study Dr Roselli's sex life and I'd publicize my results.

Which I'd be able to do because Dr Roselli, by interjecting himself into the sexual lives of rams who have sex with rams, has become for these sexual purposes a public figure.

Rams who have sex with rams.

Do you think the rams bond?

And that when one of the rams is killed, the surviving ram experiences "numb despair?"

Is that possible?

If it is, isn't killing that ram for the purpose of studying sexual bonding among rams -- a crime?

A crime against nature.

Dr Roselli points out that humans slaughter millions of sheep per year.

And that's true.

But when we humans do that, we do it for nourishment -- at least in theory.

For survival.

We don't do it because we're bothered by their sex lives.

Killing a ram because he seeks sex with another ram -- is not the same as killing him for food or clothing or even sport.

It's killing him because of his desire to bond with another male.

Isn't it?

So: My life is not a crime against nature.

But Dr Roselli's research is.

Any time you treat the love of male for male -- and the sexual expression of that love -- as, to quote Jim, an anomaly and in isolation and somehow curable -- you commit a crime against nature, against Men, and against Natural Masculinity.

And you create that NUMB DESPAIR which poor old Publius Papinius Statius described so well ca 96 AD.

NUMB DESPAIR

Here's what my foreign friend says about stallions.

He says that stallions bond -- naturally.

And that once they're bonded, they become extremely difficult to control.

So that the people who use horses in his country as working animals prevent such bonds from forming.

Instead, they pair male and female horses, and in effect force them to become a couple.

I have already mentioned that male-male bonds are considered a menace and the trainers prevent male horses from developing intimacy by not putting them together. Sex between males in horses is a well known fact (a horse breeding site also talks about this). But it is the way they are forced to bond with female horses which is more telling.

When they put the male horses for the first time with a female --- the horses react extremely negatively, even in an hostile manner. In the case I'm describing, the male horse had not eaten for a week when forced with the female. He must have been still young. I don't know if he had a male buddy before that. Then slowly he learned to adjust with the female. He had no other option, plus they trained him through rewards and punishments. And finally, he developed an intimacy with the female so much so that today he is inseparable with the female.

Isn't it how they treat humans? Does it tell us anything about human [exclusive] heterosexuality and how is it made possible? Doesn't the society use various mechanisms to psychologically keep men away from men sexually so as to keep them from forming intimacy?

Doesn't the society punish and reward men in order to train them to bond with women? And then claim that heterosexuality is natural / normal?

Isn't that what society does?

Including and with "scientific" research into the brains of rams?

It punishes males for seeking to bond with other males -- up to and including killing them -- and rewards those who bond with females.

And when you kill an animal for what is a totally natural and indeed harmless behavior -- have you not committed a crime against nature?

And over time does not that one crime become many crimes?

Crimes against nature.

A few days ago I reported on this board the suicide of a Presbyterian pastor, Brent Dugan.

Rev Dugan and I were about the same age.

I came out when I was 24.

He didn't start having sex with men till he was 56, and his experiences were apparently not good.

Finally he was betrayed by his sexual partner and threatened with exposure by a local TV station.

So he killed himself.

Brent Dugan, like myself, would have grown up believing that his normal and natural same-sex feelings were a crime against nature.

Did that belief contribute to his suicide?

Sure.

But the true crime was and is against Brent Dugan's nature -- and mine -- and that of all the other Men on the planet.

It's an ongoing crime.

And Dr Roselli's research is part of that crime.

No matter what the NY Times may think.

To treat same-sex affection, bonding, and sex as an anomaly, an aberration, and as something which needs to be cured -- is a crime.

Bill Weintraub

© All material Copyright 2007 by Bill Weintraub. All rights reserved.


Robert Loring

Re: Crimes against nature

2-18-2007

Growing up I used to hear the SAME "scientific" garbage about how there is no homosexuality in nature. I call it "garbage" because I knew the "experts" were spinning a big fat LIE! I knew this because I spent a lot of time out in nature and living around ranch animals and I saw homosexual bonding and behavior between these animals all the time. At one point in my life I thought I was the only man on earth to realize that homosexuality in nature was NORMAL and ACCEPTABLE. Needless to say at a very early age I developed no real esteem for the so called "experts." In fact, I came to think of most of them as FOOLS and LIARS!!

As stated in the previous post, "now human society is out of sync with nature." That is EXACTLY the problem today!! Human society IS out of sync with NATURE and it is causing all kinds of problems that are getting WORSE not better! We have this concept that nature is something to be dominated and conquered. That nature is our ENEMY! This concept so graciously taught to us by our LOST modern society is erroneous. We seek to be apart from nature and separate ourselves from nature and this IS the mistake. We should be making ourselves part of nature instead of trying to dominate it and go against the natural pretending to be something we are NOT.

Modern society is geared towards separating us from our NATURAL and INNER selves. It seeks to divorce us from who we are and from our natural selves and, thus, seeks to have us each dwell in an abyss of inner darkness instead of dwelling in inner LIGHT. Fighting this darkness is a major task, a MAJOR WAR, that many of us have fought or are fighting now because we REFUSE to buy the GARBAGE being put out as "science" today and because we REFUSE to be separated from our INNER and NATURAL SELVES. We REJECT living in the darkness!!

"To treat same-sex affection, bonding, and sex as an anomaly, an aberration, and as something which needs to be cured -- is a crime." That's right! It's a crime and a crime of MURDER!! Countless males have been spiritually and psychologically "murdered" by modern society as it pushes it's FALSE "science" that straight is normal and homosexuality is abnormal. There are even MORE males today that have become IMPRISONED in their own MINDS because they have bought into this GARBAGE science and these males have been forced to dwell not simply in darkness BUT IN FEAR!!

Nature CLEARLY shows us PROOF POSITIVE that homosexuality and bonding between male mammals is NATURAL and NORMAL. Yet, our society continues to reject the EVIDENCE and choses instead to march down the road of false science and self delusion! Homosexuality is NOT a crime against nature but, rather, it is a NORMAL PART OF NATURE!!

How many human lives have been destroyed by the false science of our society? How many people, male and female, are IMPRISONED in their own minds afraid to be who they really are and do what they really want to do? How many people have already been separated from their INNER SELVES and no longer even have a clue to who or what they really are? And, what has been the cost of all this to the world, to the brotherhood of man? The cost, rest assured, has been GREAT!! The psychological and spiritually DEAD are EVERYWHERE today!

I would encourage everyone to get out into nature and OBSERVE the OBVIOUS! You will discover that you are more normal than you think. You will begin to discover your INNER and NATURAL SELF! You will find much within yourself that is natural and very much in tune with NATURE. You will become ALIVE again and stop being one of the DEAD! And, finally, as you connect with nature and become a part of nature instead of fighting against nature you will begin to LIVE IN THE LIGHT as you come out of the darkness emposed upon you by modern society. And when you return to society all the HYPOCRISY and LIES will be obvious to you and you will laugh at the sheer IGNORANCE that so plagues modern society today especially the ignorance regarding homosexuality as being "abnormal."


Tim

Re: Crimes against nature

2-18-2007

Bill:

If I had seen these articles when I was a teenager, I really think my life would have been very different.......freer, more self-respect, happier.

There is so much here on this site to ponder over. It's like being in a candy store.

Tim


Bill Weintraub

Re: Crimes against nature

2-24-2007

Thank you guys.

Robert is of course correct that

Nature CLEARLY shows us PROOF POSITIVE that homosexuality and bonding between male mammals is NATURAL and NORMAL. Yet, our society continues to reject the EVIDENCE and choses instead to march down the road of false science and self delusion! Homosexuality is NOT a crime against nature but, rather, it is a NORMAL PART OF NATURE!!

Robert's right.

The problem is that so long as society continues to believe that there's a gulf between "gay" and "straight," people like Roselli will keep coming forward.

And this sort of thing is really poisonous for ALL MEN.

We speak in terms of "Men who Love Men."

But given that ALL MEN are sexually attracted to other MEN, that phrase too is misleading.

What has to be understood and accepted is that when we say MAN, we mean someone who has the capacity to love both Men and Women.

The ancients understood that.

We've lost it -- totally.

And as I pointed out in the co-ed wrestling post, our society is so PSYCHOTIC -- to use Robert's word -- about sex, that on the one hand it will censor children's books which contain the word "scrotum"

-- while on the other it insists that pubescent girls be allowed to participate in the sport of wrestling -- a sport in which guys routinely touch other guys' scrotums -- while claiming that wrestling is "non-sexual."

That's truly insane.

Wrestling is NOT "non-sexual."

I don't know if any part of human life is truly non-sexual -- but wrestling sure isn't.

Now, Tim says

If I had seen these articles when I was a teenager, I really think my life would have been very different.......freer, more self-respect, happier.

Yes.

But remember, that this site now exists in a context of literally millions of other sites, all of which say the exact opposite of what we say.

They divide the world into gay and straight; and they say that gay = a tiny minority of males who are into anal, effeminacy, and promiscuity.

And they certainly don't talk about noble or heroic Warrior traditions.

And if they do talk about animal "homosexuality," they'll do it in a "scientific" way that cautions the reader not to -- in essence -- take any comfort from the fact that bulls bond with bulls and rams with rams.

Whereas when we present it -- or at least when I do -- I trot out Statius, who understands that we CAN look to Nature for lessons in how human beings might and even should behave.

And that's because -- dare I say -- that Statius is part of a great HUMANISTIC tradition, dating back first to the Sumerians and then the Greeks, which does not quail at the idea of HUMANS being part of NATURE and learning from NATURE.

Not the etiolated nature of an academic "scientist" like Roselli, but the great and expansive NATURE of the humanistic and in particular the Romantic tradition.

I know, romanticism is supposed to start with Goethe and the like.

But there are Romantic elements in Statius -- who is after all, a Roman author.

Writing about and for people who appreciated grand gestures.

When, in the midst of a ferocious battle, Polynices falls naked and wailing on Tydeus' bloody corpse -- that's a grand gesture.

And it's related to the grandeur of -- Nature.

Robert:

Nature CLEARLY shows us PROOF POSITIVE that homosexuality and bonding between male mammals is NATURAL and NORMAL. Yet, our society continues to reject the EVIDENCE and choses instead to march down the road of false science and self delusion! Homosexuality is NOT a crime against nature but, rather, it is a NORMAL PART OF NATURE!!

How many human lives have been destroyed by the false science of our society? How many people, male and female, are IMPRISONED in their own minds afraid to be who they really are and do what they really want to do? How many people have already been separated from their INNER SELVES and no longer even have a clue to who or what they really are? And, what has been the cost of all this to the world, to the brotherhood of man? The cost, rest assured, has been GREAT!! The psychological and spiritually DEAD are EVERYWHERE today!

I would encourage everyone to get out into nature and OBSERVE the OBVIOUS! You will discover that you are more normal than you think. You will begin to discover your INNER and NATURAL SELF! You will find much within yourself that is natural and very much in tune with NATURE. You will become ALIVE again and stop being one of the DEAD! And, finally, as you connect with nature and become a part of nature instead of fighting against nature you will begin to LIVE IN THE LIGHT as you come out of the darkness emposed upon you by modern society. And when you return to society all the HYPOCRISY and LIES will be obvious to you and you will laugh at the sheer IGNORANCE that so plagues modern society today especially the ignorance regarding homosexuality as being "abnormal."

Thank you again guys.

Bill Weintraub

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Bill Weintraub

Frot among the animals

2-25-2007

Chuck Tarver very kindly alerted me to these passages from Bruce Bagemihl's Biological Exuberance: Animal Homosexuality and Natural Diversity -- which is discussed on our MediaWatch page.

Gray whales (Eschrichtius robustus)

Male homosexual interactions among Gray Whales occur frequently in the northern summering waters and during the northward migration. Sexual and affectionate activities occur close to the surface of the water in long sessions lasting anywhere from 30 minutes to more than an hour and a half. Often more than two males are involved, sometimes as many as four or five. The whales begin by rolling around each other and onto their sides, with much splashing of water, flailing of fins and flukes at the surface, and occasional slapping of the surface and blowing; sometimes two males rise out of the water several feet in a throat-to-throat position. The whales rub their bellies together and position themselves so that their genital areas are in contact, and usually one or more has an arching, erect or semi-erect penis (which is a distinctive light pink in color and may be three to five feet in length and a foot in circumference at its base). Often two or more males intertwine their penises above the water surface, or one male may lay his erect penis on another male's belly or perhaps nudge the other’s penis with his head. Female homosexual interactions may also occur.

Gray Whales also frequently form same-sex companionships (pairs and trios) that travel and feed together throughout the summer (without necessarily engaging in sexual activity with one another). They swim in an intimate side-by-side position, often with their side fins touching, and travel back and forth along the length of coastal inlets for hours at a time, apparently with no particular purpose other than to be together. Such companions also perform synchronized blowing and diving maneuvers, including feeding and breaching (an acrobatic leap two-thirds out of the water, landing with a dramatic splash on their sides or backs). Two whales also often roll over and under each other, rubbing bellies. Both short-term and long-term (recurring) pair- and trio-bonds occur: some last only for a few hours or days, with the whales changing partners several times over the summer; other companionships endure from year to year.

Bottlenose dolphin (Tursiops truncatus)

Male Bottlenose Dolphins often form lifelong pair-bonds with each other. Adolescent and younger males typically live in all-male groups in which homosexual activity is common; within these groups, a male begins to develop a strong bond with a particular partner (usually of the same age) with whom he will spend the rest of his life. The two Dolphins become constant companions, often traveling widely; although sexual activity probably declines as they get older, it may continue to be a regular feature of such partnerships. Paired males sometimes take turns guarding or remaining vigilant while their partner rests. They also defend their mates against predators such as sharks and protect them while they are healing from wounds inflicted during preclators’ attacks. Sometimes three males form a tightly bonded trio. On the death of his partner, a male may spend a long time searching for a new male companion -- usually unsuccessfully, since most other males in the community are already paired and will not break their bonds. If, however, he can find another "widower" whose male partner has died, the two may become a couple...

The lives of male Bottlenose Dolphins are characterized by extensive bisexuality, combined with periods of exclusive homosexuality. As adolescents and young males, they have regular homosexual interactions in all-male groups, sometimes alternating with heterosexual activity. From age 10 onward, most male Dolphins form pair-bonds with another male, and because they do not usually father calves until they are 20-25 years old, this can be an extended period -- 10-15 years -- of principally same-sex interaction. Later, when they begin mating heterosexually, they still retain their primary male pair-bonds, and in some populations male pairs and trios cooperate in herding females or in interacting homosexually with Spotted Dolphins.

West Indian Manatees (Trichechus manatus)

Male West Indian Manatees of all ages regularly engage in intense homosexual activities. In a typical encounter, two males embrace, rub their genital openings against each other, and then unsheathe or erect their penises and rub them together, often to ejaculation. During a homosexual mating, the two males often tumble to the bottom, thrusting against each and wallowing in the mud as they clasp each other tightly. A wide variety of positions are used, including embracing in head-to-tail and sideways positions, often with interlocking penises or flipper-penis contact. All of these are distinct from the position used for heterosexual copulation, in which the male typically swims underneath the female on his back and mates with her upside down. Lasting for up to two minutes, homosexual copulations are generally four to eight times longer than heterosexual ones. Before they engage in sexual activity, males often "kiss" each other by touching their muzzles at the surface of the water. In addition, several other types of affectionate and tactile activities are a part of homosexual interactions, including mouthing and caressing of each other's body, nibbling or nuzzling of the genital region, and riding by one male on the back of the other (a behavior also seen in heterosexual interactions). Sometimes a male emits vocalizations indicating his pleasure during homosexual activity, variously described as high-pitched squeaks, chirp-squeaks, or snort-chirps. If, however, he is not interested in participating, he may emit a squealing sound, slapping his tail as he flees from the other male (just the way females do when trying to escape from unwanted advances of males)...

Bill Weintraub:

First, let's start with the Frot component of this.

What's apparent is that when mammals are anatomically able to Frot -- they do.

Which is why we see the behavior in chimps -- bonobos; and in dolphins, whales, and manatees.

The chimps, dolphins, and whales are, of course, by human standards, "intelligent."

But I don't think that's true of manatees -- they're herbivores and don't need to be particularly smart.

So I don't think this is a question of smarts.

I think it's more a question of, first off, is this anatomically possible?

If you look at some of the other passages in Bagemihl, what you'll see is that four-legged animals often mount each other and rub -- the way your dog will do your leg.

That's frottage -- sexual rubbing.

Clearly, it would be difficult for most four-legged animals like dogs or rams or bulls to rub cocks.

Though -- if they could figure out a way to do it -- they would.

Because it's intrinsically pleasurable.

So Frot is a completely NATURAL behavior -- among animals -- and among humans.

Now let's return to the issues raised in this post.

Given the abundance of what Bagemihl calls "animal homosexuality," what's Dr Roselli -- he's the man at the Orwellian-named University of Science and Health who's been killing rams who seek to "mate" with other rams so that he can dissect their brains -- what's he going to do?

Will he make a career of it?

Where he kills bottlenose dophins and gray whales and manatees and otters and seals and bulls and so on and so on and so on -- all in the name of determining which are "likeliest to breed" and controlling "sexual motivation and mate selection?"

Those are the reasons given in the Times article.

Problem: none of these species are having difficulties breeding.

And they're doing just fine when it comes to sexual motivation and mate selection.

They're having a lot of sex and they're choosing the mates they please.

So -- why do they have to be studied and killed or killed and studied?

I mean, the killing's always in there -- right?

I mean, hey, when it comes to "bisexuality" / "homosexuality" there's a virtually unlimited supply of potential victims out there because we're talking the entire animal kingdom.

Lots of dead meat on the way guys.

And I'm not kidding about this because what I've seen over the course of my 59 years of being "a homosexual" is that creeps like Roselli turn THEIR OWN and society's discomfort with Manly Love and Womanly Affection into lucrative careers.

At this point, Roselli's "research" is being funded by our very own National Institutes of Health.

But that's just the tip of the iceberg.

There are the books, the magazine and newspaper articles, the talk shows, the TV specials, the webcasts -- there's no end to the opportunities for someone who's willing eager and able to exploit our heterosexualized society's obsession with and confusion about same-sex love.

I've seen this over and over again in my life.

In the 60s and 70s there were two psychoanalytically-based "therapists" -- Bieber and Socarides -- whose entire careers consisted of telling "homosexuals" that they were mentally ill and claiming to "cure" them.

Socarides died not too long ago -- it turned out that he had a gay-identified son.

Apparently they didn't much talk about it.

I wonder if Roselli has kids.

What's he going to do if one of his male children seeks to mate with another male?

Kill him and dissect his brain?

I also know from my life experience that every time some idiot like Roselli or Socarides says it's the parents, it's a hormone, it's a gene -- MEN in our fucked-up, fucked-over, heterosexualized and heterosexist society are done enormous damage.

Not just gay-identified men.

But ALL MEN.

When I started this effort more than seven years ago now, I wrote about cultural tyrannies.

I talked about the Heterosexual Dictatorship and the Buttfuck Dictatorship.

And I warned my fellow MEN that the ONLY WAY to survive is to CHALLENGE those tyrannies.

CONSTANTLY AND WITHOUT CEASING.

YOU CANNOT FOR A MOMENT LET SOMEONE LIKE ROSELLI GO UNCHALLENGED.

That will kill you.

The guys who didn't challenge the Heterosexual Dictatorship ended up internalizing a "mentally ill" self-image -- and they either committed suicide outright or spent a lifetime trying to dull the pain with drugs and alcohol.

The guys who didn't challenge the Buttfuck Dictatorship ended up dying of AIDS.

And to this day they continue to get infected with HIV and HPV and who knows what else -- and with what result we cannot be certain.

So: when, in the face of all the evidence we have of joyful and affectionate and loving same-sex activity among animals, someone like Roselli insists on treating that activity as abnormal, anomalous, aberrant, and deserving of dissection --

you need to understand that there's something very WRONG with Roselli.

Because it can't work both ways.

Either there's something wrong with Nature --

or there's something wrong with Roselli.

And if there's something wrong with Nature -- then there's something wrong with YOU.

And YOU have to decide whether you think that's true.

Is there something WRONG with YOU?

Is there?

Are you less than a MAN because you want to rub cocks with another MAN?

If so, are the dolphins less than dolphins, the whales less than whales, the manatees less than manatees, the chimps less than chimps?

Are the rams less than rams?

The bulls less than bulls?

Do YOU not see that the animals themselves do not question the behavior?

If the animals don't, why then do YOU?

Robert:

How many human lives have been destroyed by the false science of our society? How many people, male and female, are IMPRISONED in their own minds afraid to be who they really are and do what they really want to do? How many people have already been separated from their INNER SELVES and no longer even have a clue to who or what they really are? And, what has been the cost of all this to the world, to the brotherhood of man? The cost, rest assured, has been GREAT!! The psychological and spiritually DEAD are EVERYWHERE today!

I would encourage everyone to get out into nature and OBSERVE the OBVIOUS! You will discover that you are more normal than you think. You will begin to discover your INNER and NATURAL SELF! You will find much within yourself that is natural and very much in tune with NATURE. You will become ALIVE again and stop being one of the DEAD! And, finally, as you connect with nature and become a part of nature instead of fighting against nature you will begin to LIVE IN THE LIGHT as you come out of the darkness emposed upon you by modern society. And when you return to society all the HYPOCRISY and LIES will be obvious to you and you will laugh at the sheer IGNORANCE that so plagues modern society today especially the ignorance regarding homosexuality as being "abnormal."

Bill Weintraub

© All material Copyright 2007 by Bill Weintraub. All rights reserved.


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