Fighting is Man. Man is Good.
Fighting is Man. Man is Good.
6-18-2006
I sort of turned away from regular freestyle and collegiate wrestling for a while since I'd gotten into submission grappling and fighting. But I've done some re-thinking.
I think that freestyle wrestling and collegiate have a place. They are a great place for young (and older) guys to get into combat sport. It's what got me back into man vs man sports.
Plus, submission grappling, although it's usually done shirtless, has a kind of denial of male sexuality to it. That's because guys wear big cups to protect their balls. In submission grappling your balls are quite exposed to danger as opposed to collegiate or freestyle wrestling. That's understandable.
However as you can see by this pic, in wrestling the male genitals are well exposed and out there for all to see (your opponent, your team mates, the other team mates, and the people in the stands). That's important, I have come to realize.
The cool thing about singlets is that they let you be basically naked in a grapple with another dude for 6 minutes or so right in front of the whole world. Nylon singlets, which these guys have on, are the best. They have about 10% lycra. They're incredibly thin. Takes a lot of confidence and lack of inhibition to wear that in front of a bunch of people--next best thing to wrestlers in the ancient world. It says:
Like I say, the nylon singlet is only paper thin. So it's like going nude in the first place. Makes it really really cool to grapple in a thin nylon singlet. The singlet also adds to the energy of the sport by leaving something up to the imagination.
You can ask anyone and they'd instantly deny it probably, but when you see a male in a thin, nylon/lycra singlet like the dude in the pic, your eyes are instantly drawn--even for just a second or two--to the manpackage down below.
Nature made the male of all mammal species with the genitals exposed. It puts out in the open, the tender, vulnerable and beautiful male sex organs outside the body; contrasting it with the muscular fight potential presence of the rest of the male body; which is all made possible by the vulnerable ball sack on the male body in the first place. It's ironic and beautiful at the same time. Nature is beautiful. And we're always drawn to that ball sack when we see it. Admit it. The singlet and freestyle wrestling is very good for that.
Guys have ALWAYS been interested in other guys. Call it comparison; call it whatever. It's what guys do; it's how the male brain works.
Males inherently want to check each other out; they want to check out each other's packages for shape and size; and they want to check out each other's physical qualities (the body that they, for an instant, wonder how they'd do against in a fight). It all works together. It is how nature and our Creator made us.
Being male is good.
The wrestling singlet on a real grappler/wrestler makes this possible.
Let go; open up; and fight.
Fighting is Man. Man is good.
Here's another look at that wrestler. They probably agreed to freeball it on the way to that tournament or something. That's good for man.
Re: Fighting is Man. Man is Good.
6-18-2006
Thanks Naked guy.
NakedWrestler aka NW is the author of many essays in Warriors Speak, including
aggresssion and the beauty of guys
And he's right on.
He's saying that it's good for a fighter's balls to be visible, because the balls are central to the whole fight enterprise:
It puts out in the open, the tender, vulnerable and beautiful male sex organs outside the body; constrasting it with the muscular fight potential presence of the rest of the male body; which is all made possible by the vulnerable ball sack on the male body in the first place. It's ironic and beautiful at the same time. Nature is beautiful. And we're always drawn to that ball sack when we see it. Admit it. The singlet and freestyle wrestling is very good for that.
Guys have ALWAYS been interested in other guys. Call it comparison; call it whatever. It's what guys do; it's how the male brain works.
Males inherently want to check each other out; they want to check out each other's packages for shape and size; and they want to check out each other's physical qualities (the body that they, for an instant, wonder how they'd do against in a fight). It all works together. It is how nature and our Creator made us.
Being male is good.
That's correct.
Being a man is good.
Fighting is Man. Man is good.
Thanks NW.
© All material Copyright 2006 by Bill Weintraub. All rights reserved.
Re: Fighting is Man. Man is Good.
6-18-2006
Very nice and visually delightful post.
Thanx NW!
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