aggression and the beauty of guys
aggression and the beauty of guys
12-4-2004
Aggression and the beauty of guys who asserted that aggression was what first attracted me to wrestling and fighting. Watching lean sweaty
boxers on TV trying to dominate each other through aggression directed at each other turned me on.
They were beautiful and they were aggressive. I was even more attracted to wrestling because of the full body contact. It allowed the fighters to totally physically connect to each other in the struggle for dominance. And the fakeness of pro wrestling quickly turned me off to TV pro wrestling.
We had no wrestling in my grade school.
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In PE class freshman year high school I went up to the wrestling mats with a kid who tapped me on the shoulder and asked me to wrestle him. Neither one of us could play basketball or cared about it so I said sure. We walked onto the mats and took our shirts off. We stood there in PE shorts. There I stood looking across at a lean buffed dude my size. I was really buffed too for my age since I was an early developer.
Neither one of us really knew how to wrestle but I knew I had to put
him on his back. As soon as we connected though I could feel the warm
beautiful lean body he had totally connect with mine. This is what man to man felt like and it instantly started to give me an erection. It
scared me to death. I was able to put him on his back but could not complete the pin for fear of my rock hard cock touching his crotch or any other part of his body which would give me away as a fag. I had been raised in and had gone to school in a very homophobic environment.
Keeping my sexual turn on to my self was of utmost importance so I
never pursued a chance to be on the wrestling team even though I continued to show up at wrestling practices. It's just one reason that today I feel homophobia is incredibly stupid. I can still remember that cool looking kid asking me why I couldn't finish pinning him every time I got him on his back. I remember giving him some stupid answer like I'm too tired right now. I think he did wrestle 1 or 2 years.
I went on to try wrestling in college for 2 years. But W/O the basic
skills I could have gained in high school I was just meat for the college varsity guys to beat up on.
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Today 20 some years later I've used wrestling to get into excellent
shape again. I lost 60 lbs and took up freestyle Olympic rules wrestling. I've become lean and buffed and very flexible again because I got back into it. I accept my sexuality and I don't apologize for it. When I concentrate on defeating my opponent I'm very skilled on the mat. And it simply keeps me young.
I allow myself time for horsing around with nude wrestling like Greeks and Romans used to. It's a fun and perfectly harmless thing for males to do from time to time. It's real male bonding. I highly recommend it as I do all exercise.
Yes you will get a hard on from doing this. If you're a guy it's what your body does. You ARE normal. The aggression tells your body to crank up the testosterone which your body needs to be aggressive in the first place. You need it to fight. Testosterone also gives you an erection. You ARE normal. Wrestling and male aggression keeps you young. Enjoy your maleness.
Today I'm pushing the envelope and learning full contact fighting. I've watched it for a while and decided I want to experience that level of aggression when it's done in a controlled environment with a referee. I like to be able to shake hands with and hug my opponent after the fight to experience the male bonding that results from fighting.
Males are naturally attracted to each other even if they can't admit it to themselves and we've not been allowed to experience that reality in the Western World for almost 2000 years.
Experience it; celebrate it.
Re: aggression and the beauty of guys
12-13-2004
Thanks nakedwrestler
Among the many very powerful Man2Man Alliance voices raised about the intensity of male bonding through wrestling and frot, nakedwrestler's has been one of the most eloquent:
I allow myself time for horsing around with nude wrestling like Greeks and Romans used to. It's a fun and perfectly harmless thing for males to do from time to time. It's real male bonding. I highly recommend it as I do all exercise.
Yes you will get a hard on from doing this. If you're a guy it's what your body does. You ARE normal. The aggression tells your body to crank up the testosterone which your body needs to be aggressive in the first place. You need it to fight. Testosterone also gives you an erection. You ARE normal. Wrestling and male aggression keeps you young. Enjoy your maleness.
Today I'm pushing the envelope and learning full contact fighting. I've watched it for a while and decided I want to experience that level of aggression when it's done in a controlled environment with a referee. I like to be able to shake hands with and hug my opponent after the fight to experience the male bonding that results from fighting.
Males are naturally attracted to each other even if they can't admit it to themselves and we've not been allowed to experience that reality in the Western World for almost 2000 years.
Experience it; celebrate it.
This man understands:
Yes you will get a hard on from doing this. If you're a guy it's what your body does. You ARE normal. The aggression tells your body to crank up the testosterone which your body needs to be aggressive in the first place. You need it to fight. Testosterone also gives you an erection. You ARE normal. Wrestling and male aggression keeps you young. Enjoy your maleness.
That's *exactly* right and beautifully said.
naked wrestler is the author of nineteen articles in warriors speak, including:
MANPHOBIA -- Fired for being into UFC;
Wrestling Rides -- Get to know your man;
Full Mount Fight; and
And he's replied to many posts, including
touching penises when hugging; and
Go Shirtless: In support of a brother!!
To learn more about sex and aggression, ck out our definition of natural male sex aggression
and never forget
Re: aggression and the beauty of guys
12-13-2004
I can totally relate to this. I played water polo in college and still play when I get the chance. H2O Polo is very much a contact sport with a lot of kicking, punching and grabbing going on under the water. The aggression involved in the game has always been a sexual turn on for me.
Recently I've gotten into wrestling and enjoy wrestling nude with another guy. There is something about facing off against another naked, erect opponent that guarantees a good match. His hardness says "I'm ready to fight. I'm not afraid of you. I can take you."
Drop me a note if you want to talk.
Dale
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