I think it's part of the slight homophobia I detect in submission fighting. It will get worked out over time.

I was up at the fight school yesterday, and I watched the grapplers. They never like to control through the crotch at all. It's the way they're taught -- even by the head of the school.

Crotch and hip control doesn't necessarily mean grabbing the guy's balls. It means using torque and leverage to control the hips first. Then the rest of the body follows. You'll see a lot of the guys in MMA/UFC do what's called sinking in the hooks (from the outside). That actually works for some stuff and for pounding the guy's head in from the back side.

But there is also the use of "inside grapevine" technique. Greeks used it a LOT I think. It gets you off to the side of your opponent, from the rear so you can do other stuff to him. It puts your balls and cock in direct contact with your bottom man's butt, and you feel a cool sensation with the combination of control of the bottom man, your cock and balls totally safe in that position, and feeling really good against the guy's butt reminding you that it's those balls of yours that drive you to fight and dominate him in the first place.

And it gives you a few seconds to quickly think about what to do to the guy next, to defeat him.

You keep the guy under control by literally arching your back backwards and driving your crotch (cock and balls) into the hips and butt of the bottom man. That's how it's done. Deal with it.

THE POSITION GIVES YOU CONTROL OVER THE GUY. THE CONTROL DOES NOT GIVE YOU POSITION. (The immortal words of my wrestling coach.)

Yes wrestling is fighting; it is also erotic. That's being a guy. Women can never feel the manpower of balls and penis against their opponent cause they don't have cocks and balls. That's life.

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Also by Naked Wrestler:

Cockfuckin Man to Man;

The Ultimate in Man to Man;

Fighting is Man;

balls against balls;

MANPHOBIA -- Fired for being into UFC;

Fighting is Man. Man is Good;

Freeballing is good;

Fighting is good;

balls and the man;

the Man area;

MANBALLS; and

MAN SPACE.

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