finally, a viewpoint I can relate to
finally, a viewpoint I can relate to
5-23-2003
Bill, I think I've been a cockrub warrior for a long time, but hadn't realized it until stumbling upon your site. Thanks for presenting a fresh way of looking at things!
At 51, I'm a long-time worshiper of masculinity as expressed in the male body and spirit. Over the years I have had many man2man sexual encounters, cock2cock, JO, oral but never anal. At the same time I have enjoyed long and passionate relationships with women. While I've long been comfortable with my proclivity to be intimate with both men and women, society dictates that my "bisexual" orientation is somehow deviant; many in both gay and straight communities view it as disingenuous to everyone involved, or just plain "wrong".
I have always been guarded about letting other men know about my inclinations; the men I'm attracted to seem more straight(acting) than gay(acting) in the sense of today's stereotypes. I've long been into looking after my own physical and emoptional fitness, and that's what I'm attracted to in other men. The notion of man2man intimacy being a healthy component of masculinity really resonates with me. It's something I've always believed, but have had few occasions to fully express.
As for warriordom, I haven't wrestled in many years, but my first man2man encounter involved pre-teen wrestling naked with a cousin (your site has put that episode into proper context for the first time). I am however a competitive cyclist (road and mountain), into taught shaved calves & quads, spandex, sweat, and checking out the other riders....and I've long fantasized man2man in the woods with a fellow cyclist! Any other warriorcyclists out there in Virginia?
Thanks for putting together this site, I'll enjoy exploring.
Regards,
WarriorCyclistNick
Re: finally, a viewpoint I can relate to
05-23-2003
hi nick
thank you for your post
although many of the men on this site like to wrestle or are martial artists, being a "warrior" has nothing to do with wrestling
rather, we use the word "warrior" to honor and empower all those men who've stayed true to their dreams of cock2cock and resisted two tyrannies:
1. the
gay male tyranny, aka the Buttfuck Dictatorship, which says you're not really gay if you don't fuck
2. the straight tyranny, which says that "real" men -- that is, straight-identified men who are heavily into women -- don't have sex with other men
both tyrannies are wrong and are lying
1. there's nothing exclusively "gay" about anal penetraton -- there are str8 people who are stupid enough to do anal too
what is uniquely man2man is cock2cock / dick2dick /
FROT
like penile-vaginal sex, FROT is
genital-genital sex
but FROT is genital-genital sex which only two men can enjoy
it's uniquely male and uniquely ours
2. the straight tyranny is lying about what men do with other men
virtually all straight-identified men have same-sex needs and desires
there's nothing abnormal or uncommon about that -- not unusual, not rare, not aberrant, not strange
what's more, most straight-identified guys who act on those desires do FROT and mutual JO -- they don't do anal
so if you look at the entire population of men who have sex with men, anal is the practice of a tiny minority
FROT is what most men do most of the time
but guys like Nick or Doug or Luke have no way of knowing that -- because the Buttfuck and Heterosexual Dictatorships have censored and silenced and attacked any who dare speak these plain truths
so it's up to us to get the word out
and that's what a warrior does
sure, it's fun to wrestle, and we encourage all men to get some martial arts training
but a true warrior fights for what he believes
and that's why we say
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