FROT and Wrestling: power, agility, intimacy, sweat, minds, bodies, hearts, souls

power, agility, intimacy, sweat, minds, bodies, hearts, souls

8-31-2009

I'm a former HS Football/Wrestler into frottage, underwear, jockstraps and nudity.

What this means to me is two men sharing the timeless honored sport of control, power, agility, intimacy, sweat, and play in one of the hottest ways possible. It's permission to invade each other's domains, crashing two worlds together in sudden hot combat, or slow, torturous ownership and domination. It's pleasure and (mild) pain. It's control and being controlled. It's quick and it's slow, with fantasies explored. It's the perfect way to really understand a hot guy you want to get closer to, to learn his energy (and yours). To see what he's made of. To see what you're made of. To push yourself and him to your limits...together. To look eye to eye in ferocity and calmness. To put it all on the line, to the last moment. To win it all, and lose it all. It's competitive, and yet cooperative. It's one of the best workouts you can get. It's minds, bodies, hearts, souls fighting for dominance on every level. And then, when it's over, to lie in each other's arms at the end and celebrate victory, that's when you know he's your friend. That's only the start.

I've dated many types of guys all my life, and the only ones where I felt I wanted to stay in with were guys into frot / wrestling.

So, you out there, reading with juices flowing inside, getting hard, salivating, wanting this experience for your own, tell me then, what do wrestling and frot mean to you?

Bill Weintraub
Re: power, agility, intimacy, sweat, minds, bodies, hearts, souls
9-1-09
Thank you JT.
What JT is talking about is what the Greeks called a Strife of Valour.
It's a core concept, not just for the Greeks, but I would think virtually all Warrior cultures.
JT says
It's minds, bodies, hearts, souls fighting for dominance on every level. And then, when it's over, to lie in each other's arms at the end and celebrate victory, that's when you know he's your friend. That's only the start.

"That's only the start"
That's right.
Plato says, at one point in the Symposium,
The lover of a nature that is worthy, abides throughout life, as being fused into one with the abiding.

How do you discover whether "a nature is worthy"?
Through FIGHTING.
That's what a Strife of Valour is -- it's a Fight, an Agony, a Contest, designed to demonstrate, reveal, and heighten Valour and Virtue -- for which the Greek word is areté ;
and as we've discussed many times, the word areté derives from ARES -- the God of War, the Warrior God, the giver of dauntless courage and the mysterious and divine guardian of the Warrior Spirit, as the Lexicon says:
From the same root [ARES] comes areté [excellence, virtue] ...the first notion of goodness being that of manhood, bravery in war; cf. Lat. virtus.

Warrior Spirit -- Fighting Spirit -- is a function of Virtue.
But, as we'll see in an upcoming post, Virtue is more than Fighting Spirit alone.
Nevertheless, when JT says

I've dated many types of guys all my life, and the only ones where I felt I wanted to stay in with were guys into frot / wrestling.

-- the reason is that only through true Fighting -- in this case Wrestling -- can one Man discover and have revealed to him the other's Warrior Spirit.
And that Spirit is the sine qua non -- the without which, not -- of the Warrior Bond.
Thank you JT.
Bill Weintraub
September 1, 2009

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