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This is a picture of a UFC-style fighter who's been defeated.
What we can see in this picture is that the defeated fighter's body posture doesn't merely resemble, but is identical to, that of a man who's about to be penetrated anally.
This man is totally passive and totally defeated.
He's defenseless; and the guy on top can do anything to him.
Batter him.
Rape him.
Kill him.
His body is still male, but his fighting spirit has been destroyed, and he lies passively on the ground, completely vulnerable.
This is what Robert Loring is talking about when he describes anal penetration as The Ultimate Defeat.
Compare this defeated fighter to this picture of a feminized male being penetrated anally.
Once again, the male is completely vulnerable.
Held down, grimacing with pain, he braces his body for the battering which is to come.
The difference between the feminized male and our defeated fighter, of course, is that the feminized male has CHOSEN defeat.
He has "voluntarily" put himself in this position of defeat and humiliation, allowing his anus to be used as an ersatz vagina, and his rectum as a phoney womb.
Knowing full well that all that can come from such an act is degradation and disease, pain and death.
It's a complete abnegation of masculinity.
This male no longer has any masculine attributes.
This male no longer has any manly attributes.
He's become an effeminized shell, a thing, neither masculine nor feminine, a creature, in Robert Loring's words, that was never meant to be.
Looking at this picture one can appreciate why the effeminsts and feminizers are such ardent proponents of anal penetration.
It's the ideal vehicle for de-masculinizing and emasculating a male, for the utter destruction of manhood.
And the beauty of it is that it achieves its goal without what society thinks of as violence.
Under the sway of analism, the feminized male is a "willing" victim, who acquiesces in his own destruction.
Is the same true of our defeated fighter?
NO.
This man is a WARRIOR.
He has trained and fought hard.
He has trained and fought honorably.
As we can see from this series of pictures, he has not chosen defeat -- he has merely suffered it.
To repeat: He has suffered defeat, but the defeat suffered is an honorable one.
Nor need he fear that his opponent will dishonor him.
As Naked Wrestler has explained, this sort of fight is both a competitive and cooperative enterprise, and the men involved do not want to injure each other's manhood.
Fighting is really about mutual respect for the other man as well as an attempt to dominate each other. So logically if you're out to hurt the other man's manhood you've lost respect for him. It is a sport after all.
Men should not really hurt each other's balls in the fight sports or there would be a breakdown of the male bonding process. Men in the group need each other as much as they need to compete with each other. So if they damage or destroy each other's manhood then the system will break down, and they can't accomplish anything as a group -- such as hunting down a beast for meat, or plowing a field for crops, or destroying their enemies in battle.
"Men in the group need each other as much as they need to compete with each other."
That's the basic point, and the central truth of male bonding, which is not just a cultural, but a BIOLOGICAL reality.
And it is just because MEN need each other, emotionally, psychologically, spiritually, and biologically, that our defeated fighter can recover from the experience and, in time, fight again.
His recovery starts within moments of his defeat.
He's helped back up by his former opponent,
And takes time to regain his breath.
In a few days, he'll return to his fight school, the modern-day palestra, and begin training again.
He'll learn from his defeat.
And he'll soon be ready to fight and compete again.
First there's a weigh-in.
Then the traditional face-to-face with his opponent.
The fight starts quickly.
It's fierce.
And soon turns bloody for both men.
Finally one man is victorious.
It hasn't been easy.
But our fighter has gone from effeminized defeat ...
to Masculine Victory.
And now he's confident and strong, ready for the next fight.
And the next...
And the next...
Can we apply the lessons from this one fighter's life to our own, and to our struggle with feminized male culture?
Yes.
First of all, what we can see in our defeated fighter is that even in defeat, he still possesses his "warrior within."
Because the presence of that warrior is a function of biology.
And for that reason it can never be truly lost or excised.
The reverse is not true.
A feminized male does not have an "inner woman."
Nor do men in general.
The idea of an "inner woman" is cultural, and those males who have feminized traits have LEARNED them.
They are not innate; they have nothing to do with biology or genetics.
These traits are a cultural overlay upon the male's core personality -- and there's nothing natural about them.
The feminized male is this picture is NOT behaving naturally.
Rather, he is playing a role which he had to be taught.
Everything about this behavior is unnatural and learned.
Everything about it is artificial and false.
This male's anus is not a vagina, and his rectum is not a womb.
He cannot enjoy penetration because there is no genital tissue in his anus; and nothing can can come from this act because there are no ovaries in his rectum.
The pain and humiliation he experiences is meaningless and purposeless.
His defeat can only lead to more defeat.
For his defeat is a result of self-rejection, the rejection of his Masculinity, his Manhood, and his Warrior within, and from such rejection can come only self-hate and self-destruction.
Robert Loring:
A person (male or female) bent on self rejection is a person bent on self hatred. A person bent on self hatred is a person bent on self destruction. When we think of such things as suicide or castration we often think in physical terms but one can commit suicide and become castrated not only physically but psychologically and spiritually as well. Sadly, there appears to be growing numbers of males who have already committed psychospiritual suicide and/or castration today as they have bought into being feminized and, thus, have become easily controllable. As has been written elsewhere on this site "Gods denied become demons. Creatures of the shadow. And what comes from the shadow is death and destruction." This is not simply true of "gods" but it is also true of MEN.
Yes.
Death and destruction is what awaits these males.
That's not true of the MAN who responds to the Warrior within and keeps true to the Warrior way.
Even in defeat such a man learns something.
In the case of our fighter, he has learned how to be a better fighter.
And he turns that knowledge to his advantage in the fights to come.
That is the Way of the Warrior.
How can I be so certain that men -- ALL MEN -- have a warrior within?
Because aggression and the ability to bond with and soldier with other men are part of the biology and sociobiology of being male.
They are universal male traits -- found in men EVERYWHERE.
And again, they are a function of MALE BIOLOGY.
Men are by NATURE aggressive.
And men form warrior bonds NATURALLY.
And UNIVERSALLY.
Has to be that way.
If you have two tribes -- one consisting of feminized males who don't fight and don't bond -- and the other consisting of aggressive MASCULINE MEN who do fight and bond --
obviously, the aggressive fighting men of the second tribe will wipe out the men of the first tribe, take their resources, and, of course, impregnate their women.
So being a warrior, and not just a lone wolf, but a WARRIOR WHO BONDS AND WORKS WITH OTHER WARRIORS, has huge survival value, and it's a trait which is perpetuated genetically.
Of course culture shapes some warrior behaviors -- sword or gun, karate or jiu jitsu -- but the basic, root behaviors are biologically mandated.
And in that sense we can say with certainty that ALL MEN have a WARRIOR WITHIN.
That's why warriors, heroes, and tales of such -- whether in the form of myth or movies or comic books about superheroes -- are so powerful for guys.
That's why guys are so attuned to wrestling and fighting.
Because of the WARRIOR WITHIN.
What about an "inner woman?"
NO.
Men are men.
Men can be nurturing, men can be intuitive.
Those are not uniquely feminine traits.
But there is no "inner woman," because male biology is MALE.
What about an "inner bitch?"
NO.
Bitchiness is not a function of biology.
It's a function of culture.
It's a learned behavior, and is one of the attributes of effeminacy.
Which again, is LEARNED.
Which is why a feminized male can be DE-FEMINIZED.
Because what's learned can be un-learned.
And because within that male, as within every male, is a WARRIOR.
So when Robert says to feminized males:
Don't be afraid! Come forth!! YOU are among BROTHERS not enemies!
He's correct.
All MEN are, potentially, BROTHERS.
Because all MEN are, potentially, WARRIORS.
Once again, Men are Warriors by NATURE.
AGGRESSION is part of the biology of being male, just as male bonding through aggression is part of the sociobiology of being male.
Notice that I said "male bonding through aggression."
Once again, because it bears repeating, here's what Naked Wrestler says about that in the context of a fight school:
Fighting is really about mutual respect for the other man as well as an attempt to dominate each other. So logically if you're out to hurt the other man's manhood you've lost respect for him. It is a sport after all.
Men should not really hurt each other's balls in the fight sports or there would be a breakdown of the male bonding process. Men in the group need each other as much as they need to compete with each other. So if they damage or destroy each other's manhood then the system will break down, and they can't accomplish anything as a group -- such as hunting down a beast for meat, or plowing up a field for crops, or fighting off the enemy.
"Men in the group need each other as much as they need to compete with each other."
That again is a function not of culture, but of BIOLOGY.
They are separated by the King and become bonded warrior brothers. |
Men are aggressive, men bond.
And that bonding, even if it's not overtly sexual, has a sexual element.
Because in the male, sex and aggression are united through the medium of testosterone.
Testosterone of course is produced in the testicles.
The balls.
Our sex drive, our secondary sexual characteristics, our manhood -- all derive directly from our balls.
As does our will to fight.
That's why we say of a brave man, a gutsy man, that he has balls.
Heart.
Male virtue.
The Greek hero Tydeus.
Tydeus is a great and formidable fighter.
Notice the prominence of the genitals, and in particular the ball sack.
The Greeks were very clear about the relationship between sex and aggression.
And between aggression, honor, and virtue.
What the Romans later conceptualized as
Vir -- Virilis -- Virtus: Man -- Manliness -- Manly Virtue
Vir -- Virilis -- Virtus
Man -- Manliness -- Manly Virtue
Male virtue, male sexuality, male aggression -- all originate in our balls.
As does male bonding.
They are functions of biology.
That's why all men are warriors.
But not all men are bitches.
Only a relatively few men are bitches.
That's because bitchiness has nothing to do with biology.
Bitchiness is cultural.
It's a learned behavior, found most of the time in gay-identified men, men who've bought into the culturally-sanctioned lie that men who have sex with men aren't real men, but a sort of pseudo-woman.
Believing themselves to be less-than-men, they take on effeminate characteristics, behaviors which parody femininity without partaking of it.
That parodic behavior is effeminacy.
Which most of the time is simply mean and bitchy.
The point is that every male, no matter how effeminized, still has a warrior within.
But the bitch is always without.
Bitchiness is a learned, cultural, behavior.
Aggression is INNATE.
Of course, male aggression must be shaped by culture.
The boy must learn how to be a man.
He must have male role models and teachers who show him how to use his aggression responsibly and honorably.
But the aggression itself is core to being male.
Robert:
In ancient times when a boy reached the age of puberty he was taken away from the women folk and put in with the warriors of the tribe or society so that he could learn how to be a MASCULINE MAN and WARRIOR.
Right.
And sometimes before puberty.
The Spartans put their sons in what they called the "herd of the young bull calves" at age seven.
And they were trained, under the eye of older men, as warriors henceforward.
Here are some Spartan artifacts which express their Warrior way:
Notice how many of these images involve defending or caring for a fallen comrade.
Images like this were ubiquitous in Sparta and the other Greek city states and helped teach a boy how to be a man.
That no longer happens in our modern society. Young men are learning how NOT to be a masculine man today! They are learning how to be feminized THINGS that are neither male or female completely. These kids are ALREADY defeated within themselves by the time they graduate high school. Masculinity and manliness are viewed by them as their enemy! They stand against there own nature! They are defeated and psychospiritual already dead! Let us not forget that these kids are the future. It's frightening to think what kind of society they are going to create when their own generation starts running things! I'm sure that the male who is naturally masculine and males who share the natural brotherhood that should exist between men will be targeted and eliminated.
Yes, except we won't let that happen.
When I was in my late teens and early twenties, I tried, like many gay-identified men of my generation, to turn myself into a heterosexual.
Didn't work.
Instead, it started killing me spiritually.
And when it was clear to me that I had to choose between being spiritually dead but sleeping with women; or being spiritually alive and sleeping with guys -- I chose the latter.
Masculinity is not something incidental to a man.
It's fundamental.
It's literally in his balls.
And you cannot deprive a man of his masculinity without, over time, killing him.
When enough men understand that in their quest for the chimerical inner woman they are destroying the REAL MAN -- they'll rebel.
And we and those other men who've kept ALIVE the warrior ethos -- the way of the warrior -- will be here to help them.
That's one reason more that it's so important to continue this work.
Robert Loring:
Many men have been beaten down and feminized today and of that there is NO DOUBT. The natural brotherhood that is suppose to exist between MEN has been RIPPED APART and thrown into the garbage! Males have been taught that their NATURAL aggressiveness and competiveness is somehow wrong and sinful. Society has taken what is natural and turned it into unnatural. Society has taken the unnatural and twisted it into being "natural" even though IT IS NOT.
MALES have been made to feel guilty for anything and everything! They've been made to feel guilty simply for having been born a dude with a set of balls instead of a vagina between their legs. This LEARNED GUILT needs to be UNLEARNED! This learned guilt has lead to DEPRESSION and feelings of UNWORTHINESS not only of LOVE but of everything else. This learned guilt has caused alcoholism and drug addiction among males to skyrocket. It has contributed, too, to the growing male crime rate! Yet, everyone is surprised? When you beat ANY person down what do you expect??? Mr. Nice Guy and perfect Citizen? Beat someone down and what you eventually get is a person close to being a rabid dog boiling with ANGER and RESENTMENT!! Daaahh...............
Males need to once again take PRIDE in themselves! They need to once again be PROUD that they were born MALE! They need to once again feel WORTHY of LOVE and of SELF LOVE! They need to STAND UP and FIGHT BACK and STOP being little boys who act as if they were just spanked by big bad Mommy! That requires telling some concepts and elements and other people in our society to GO GET FUCKED!!
The FACT is that YOU ARE worthy of LOVE! And the FACT is that there is NOTHING wrong about you being a MALE! Unload the fucking GUILT and BE A MAN...BE A WARRIOR because THAT is what is being CALLED FOR today and that call is going out to ALL males!
If males do not gain some measure of self love and start standing up and fighting back to correct the UNNATURAL and WRONG in our society then we as a society are going to lose EVERYTHING including not just our MASCULINITY but our COUNTRY! Today our nation is fighting in Iraq and Afghanistan and we are trying to fight in a PC ("politically correct" which really means "Political Corruption") womanly, nice guy manner. It is NOT working! It's NOT going to work either! Don't think for a moment that our enemies don't see through all of our beat down, self hating, guilt ridden, feminized males! They DO see right through them and they laugh and mock the American Male today! They perceive us as being WEAK and, sadly, in many males minds we ARE weak!! The guilt has got to go! All the PC garbage has got to go back to the SEWAR where it crawled out of! MEN have got to be MASCULINE MEN and WARRIORS again! Otherwise Osama is going to be knocking down our doors! This PC feminized, nice guy war is NOT working and it's not going to!!
LOVE YOURSELF!
LOVE YOUR MANHOOD!
LOVE YOUR MASCULINITY AND HONOR IT INSTEAD OF DISHONORING IT!
BE A MAN AND NOT A BOY!
FIGHT BACK!!
Now, as I discussed in my reply to Robert Loring's The Warrior Ethos, the phallus has a dual symbology.
As Danieliou has said, it's the sacred symbol of man's creative power.
The power to create life.
But the phallus is also the symbol of male aggressive power.
The power to fight.
The power to defend life.
At its most basic, that power is expressed by the fist at the end of the upraised arm.
This is the universal fighter's expression of victory.
The gesture is phallic.
And it corresponds to a hormonal reality:
As the winner of the fight, his sperm count has gone way up.
He's ready to reproduce.
Fact is, both his ability to reproduce and his desire to fight are testicular.
They come from his balls.
In the male, sex and aggression are united through the medium of testosterone.
And that's what we see in the successful fighter.
His victory has left him sexually charged.
The balls produce the testosterone.
Increased muscularity.
Testosterone of course is produced in the testicles.
The balls.
Penis and testicles, cock and balls -- manhood.
The way of the warrior is the way of salvation.
Robert:
Society has failed to look back at tradition and history and see that the WARRIOR ETHOS is the PERFECT route for many things MALE. The Warrior Ethos is a perfect pattern by which a boy can become a masculine man. A man of HONOR and a man of INTEGRITY! The Warrior Ethos is a perfect pathway by which a male can learn to control his innate aggressiveness and channel it into something PRODUCTIVE instead of destructive. The Warrior Ethos does NOT feminize a male nor does it seek to take a male along the hellish road of self rejection. Rather, it promotes masculinity, honor, and integrity. It promotes self respect and SELF CONTROL. It promotes self male PRIDE! It honors CREATION by males instead of destruction and self destruction as femininity does. The Warrior Ethos promotes and enhances NATURAL MALE MASCULINITY not only for young males but throughout the lives of mature masculine males. The Warrior Ethos is a road that never ends because it is a road of male HONOR of self and of others!
The WARRIOR ETHOS is the PERFECT route for ALL things MALE.
Including MALE-MALE SEX.
Which is what this site and The Man2Man Alliance are about.
FROT.
What is Frot?
Frot is the Way.
Frot is the Warrior Way.
FROT IS THE WARRIOR WAY OF SEX BETWEEN MEN.
And not just the Warrior Way.
Frot is the ONLY TRUE WAY for two MEN to bond sexually.
Because only Frot cherishes, honors, and exalts their mutual manhood.
To repeat:
Frot is the ONLY TRUE WAY for two MEN to bond sexually.
Frot is the only true Warrior Way for two men to bond sexually.
Frot is the only true Warrior Way for two fighting men to bond sexually.
Frot is the only true Warrior Way for two fighting men to bond sexually because Frot cherishes, honors, and exalts their mutual manhood, the manhood of EACH warrior.
Frot is PHALLIC bonding.
The aggressive rubbing of phallus against phallus until, in the heat of male passion, they merge and become one.
FROT is a completely NATURAL MASCULINE behavior.
It doesn't effeminize.
Rather, it exalts Masculinity and Manhood.
What MAN doesn't want that?
What MAN doesn't want his Masculinity heightened and his Manhood honored?
ALL MEN seek an increase in Masculinity.
ALL MEN desire an honoring of Manhood.
These are UNIVERSALS among MEN.
What is the symbology of the phallus?
It's twofold.
The phallus is, as Danielou says, the sacred symbol of man's creative power.
The power to create life.
The phallus is also the sacred symbol of man's aggressive power.
The power to fight.
The power to defend life.
At its most basic that power is expressed by the fist at the end of the outstretched arm.
And it's expressed by weapons.
The club.
The spear.
The sword.
The phallus is club-like.
In Greek myth, when the great hero Theseus starts on his quests, his first act is to take a club from an evil man who's been killing people with it.
Theseus takes the club, kills the killer, and keeps and uses the club forever after.
The message is clear:
For the boy to become a man, he must learn to use his male aggressive power in ways that are responsible and honorable.
That's what Warrior Training does.
It teaches the male to use his aggressive powers responsibly and honorably.
Just as we here teach the male to use his sexual powers responsibly and honorably.
For the male, sex and aggression are interconnected and intertwined.
Are integral.
The male's sexual power is connected to his aggressive power, his aggressive power to his sexual power.
That's how it is.
It's all connected and interconnected.
These two elemental powers cannot be separated.
Here's another image of Theseus wielding his club.
Greek kids -- Greek youths -- were surrounded by images of this sort.
These images were, in effect, role models.
They showed men, in all their nude, masculine, glory, behaving both aggressively and heroically.
Aggressively and honorably.
There were other models.
This is a sculptural group of Castor and Pollux.
Castor and Pollux were fraternal twins who were extremely devoted to each other.
They were cited constantly as examples of mutual MALE devotion.
They were also extremely popular.
A common oath was "By the twin gods!" -- referring to these guys, who were deified after they died -- honorably and in the heat of battle.
Then of course there were Harmodius and Aristogeiton -- our Death Before Dishonor guys.
Castor and Pollux were role models for Harmodius and Aristogeiton.
Do you understand?
Castor and Pollux were mythical.
Harmodius and Aristogeiton were real.
Castor and Pollux's *mythic* devotion empowered Harmodius and Aristogeiton's *real-life* devotion.
Just as Harmodius and Aristogeiton's real-life devotion and determination to live honorably can empower you.
Robert:
Harmodius and Aristogeiton provide a personal example for the rest of us. They are shining examples of MASCULINE MEN who love each other. Our own individual lives should be modeled after theirs I think. They had the balls to take a stand against a tyrant and we as modern WARRIORS must have the balls to do the SAME. Men can no longer afford to submit to whatever comes their way! We are engaged in a battle geared towards the destruction of masculinity. We must realize that battle and we must BEGIN TO FIGHT that battle because right now most males are not fighting that battle and males are on the losing end of that battle.
DEATH BEFORE DISHONOR !!
Adopt that as your personal motto!
Live it and Breath it!
Be a true masculine WARRIOR and grab your balls and begin to FIGHT against those elements in our modern society which are trying to destroy NATURAL MALE MASCULINITY!
Notice that in Greek art, most of the time the guys are shown nude.
That's not an accident.
It's an expression of a cultural value.
This is a culture which values the male genitals.
That's why they're so often on display.
Because to the Greeks, you can't separate the man from his genitals.
Can't be done.
That's why these nude statues were seen all over the ancient world.
The statues of Harmodius and Aristogeiton were the first erected in Athens after the success of the democratic revolution.
Try to imagine that in our society.
Try to imagine that Patrick Henry and Tom Paine were lovers, that they attempted to kill the English governor of Virginia, and that their act touched off the American revolution.
And that today, nude statues of Pat and Tom are to be found in every courthouse square in America.
That's what the ancient world was like.
That's how Greek culture treated men, male aggression, and the male genitals.
It all came together in what we now call "heroic nudity."
What does our culture do?
It tries to separate the man from both his genitals and his aggression.
And as Robert keeps saying, that's really destructive.
In gay culture, of course, we do see the male genitals.
But gay culture now puts equal if not more emphasis on the anus.
In so doing, it's trying to make of gay men "hermaphrodites" -- men-women, intersexed monstrosities -- in Robert's words, "something inbetween and creatures never meant to be."
"Never meant to be" is right.
Can't be done.
Gay-identified men, like other men who have sex with men, are not women.
They're men.
That's not a joke.
It's the truth.
When you try to treat the anus like a vagina, you do tremendous harm -- physically, psychologically, and spiritually.
How do we get out of this mess?
Robert:
It is time that males STAND UP, take up the WARRIOR ETHOS (the life of HONOR not dishonor), FIGHT BACK, and be PROUD to be MEN! It's time to be proud of that MUSCULAR HAIRY male body and to begin to HONOR it instead of dishonoring it by allowing the BFD have it's way with you. It's time to let that facial and chest hair grow! To make those muscles BIGGER and more defined! To let out your natural male aggressiveness in HONORABLE and CREATIVELY self-disciplined ways instead of destructive and dishonorable ways! In short, it's time to be a MASCULINE MALE! And, most especially, it's time to:
BE A WARRIOR !!
How can you be a warrior?
One way is through training in martial arts.
When I say warrior in this context, I don't mean it as a metaphor.
I mean learning how to FIGHT.
What I'd like you guys to do is come together in Regional Chapters and, among other things, train in martial arts together.
That's not some pipe dream.
It's something realizable.
The means to do it are there.
What's lacking is the will to do it.
Why?
What do you have to lose?
Robert:
Sports and martial arts are not violence! They are CONTROLLED and DISCIPLINED means for a male to release his NATURAL aggressions WITHOUT slaughtering another human being! Males have always found ways to express and release their natural aggressiveness and most commonly it has been through sports and the martial arts which are activities of MALE HONOR not dishonor. Along with the CONTROLLED physical outlet that sports and martial arts provide there is also DISCIPLINED psychological SELF CONTROL. Martial arts do not only teach physical discipline but also psychological self discipline. Yet, many people don't seem to know or understand that.
Robert's right.
Here's another picture:
This guy's a Mixed Martial Arts / UFC - style fighter at a pre-fight weigh-in.
Notice the boy on the left.
That's a powerful role model for a child.
What happens when kids don't have that sort of role model?
This is a bashing caught on surveillance tape.
These kids are using baseball bats -- clubs -- to attack a homeless man.
They killed one man and seriously hurt two others before they were caught.
No one taught these kids how to be men.
And now they'll never learn.
I'm going to come back to this picture in another post because I know that many of you do not understand the difference between aggression and this sort of violence.
And not understanding the difference could cost you your lives.
Remember what I said: Gods denied become demons. Creatures of the shadow. And what comes from the shadow is death and destruction.
In some crucial way, these kids were denied the truth about masculinity and male aggession.
And so their male aggression became a demon.
And they killed.
And now, like I say, they'll never learn the truth.
You need to start learning how to be MEN too.
Most of you aren't.
You're boys.
Analism, effeminism, feminism -- encourages men to be boys.
Boys who know nothing of aggression.
Boys who understand nothing about sex between MEN.
I've said that half of you live in buttboy land;
and the other half in straightboy land.
In both places you're a boy.
In neither are you a MAN.
This is from a recent email from a straight-identified guy:
First, let me say that I think the labels heterosexual and homosexual are misnomers, that sexuality is more than the man or woman one chooses as a mate. Sexuality, to me, just is, because humans are able to love any other human.
Your site reminded me of some experiences I've had with strangers and friends who wanted to wrestle. I appeased my friends. The stranger, however, was too odd an experience. I was moving into a new apartment, new state. A stout guy saw me and thought I looked like a wrestler he knew. After probing to assure I wasn't the wrestler, he asked if I wanted to wrestle in the front yard of the complex. I declined despite his persistence, but the incident made me wonder.
I've never been interested in men in the gay sense, which to me translates to oral, anal, and effeminacy. "Gay" repulses me, frankly. Well, sodomy and effeminacy repulse me. Sodomy, I've always believed, was anti-masculine and demeaning. Yet male to male friendship and companionship not only gets my praise, but I mourn its distorted status in the USA. I've always felt that a man needed a male buddy, whether frottage was practiced or not, to stave off the perils thrown at men to keep them from being true to themselves.
Frottage makes sense. I recall a frottage experience when I was in middle school. As my best friend and I tussled, we held each other in a bear hug and he pushed me against the wall. We felt our penises touch, kissed each other on the cheek, and like that let each other go. Silence ensued. We smiled and held each other's gaze for a few second. Our day continued with our usual antics and roughhousing of which the frottage worked as a natural part of our communion.
Bill, I think championing masculinity as you are psychologically will relieve many men of stress from fearing their homoerotic thoughts. Frottage honors masculinity. I like your site. It's informative, validating, and much needed.
"championing masculinity as you are psychologically will relieve many men of stress from fearing their homoerotic thoughts.
Frottage honors masculinity."
That's right.
When are you going to honor masculinity?
When are you going to stop being an effeminized ball-less nothing and start being a WARRIOR?
When?
Here's what Jim said:
People don't like it when someone challenges or rises above the herd - it's an affront to them because it reminds them of their own compromises and failure to make the same effort, to have the same strength, courage and integrity. So they try to bring the hero, the warrior, down, regardless of the cost to themselves. They point at any flaw, any normal human mistake, saying, who do you think you are? You're no better than us, and on and on and on. And that's the hardest fight because there is no center, no one adversary to go after.
"compromises and failures"
That's what most of you do.
You compromise.
You go along to get along, and in so doing you lose your "strength, courage, and integrity."
You acquiesce in your own feminization.
And so you fail.
Robert:
... a feminized male is ALREADY DEFEATED within his own mind! Once a person or a peoples are defeated within their own minds then of course they are easily dominated and controlled. Any elementary armchair soldier knows that basic! Defeat the enemy in his own mind and soul and you have already won the major battle in the war. Feminized males are dominated by self uncertainty and ruled over by inner fear. A person ruled by fear is a person already defeated and buried. "Gods denied become demons. Creatures of the shadow. And what comes from the shadow is death and destruction."
This is not only true of "gods" but it is also true of MEN! Men who are taught to reject and deny their innate masculinity and aggression become creatures of the shadows and following close behind come only death and destruction. Destruction not only of self but destruction also of other people. There is, contrary to popular ignorance, NO GOOD that comes from feminizing a male!!
Now, having acquiesced in your own feminization, you work to defeat those who might help you.
Jim:
"they try to bring the hero, the warrior, down, regardless of the cost to themselves."
Right -- that's certainly something I've seen time and again.
For example -- you don't DONATE.
Even though that's the one simplest thing you could do which would ameliorate your condition.
You won't do it.
You'd rather bring this down -- regardless of the cost to yourself.
Robert:
So who is doing the controlling? Who is it that wants so desperately to feminize males and bring them to the abyss of self hatred and self rejection? Who is it that desires males to hate their own natural maleness and masculinity? Who is it that wants males to live lives in shame? Who is it that does not want us to discover much less follow the pathway of the WARRIOR ETHOS? Who is it that fears that should a male ever follow that Warrior Ethos pathway that he just might begin to FIGHT BACK? After all, feminized males DON'T fight back BUT males living out the WARRIOR ETHOS in their lives DO STAND UP AND FIGHT BACK because they are NOT defeated within their own minds! That scares the SHIT out of whoever it is who wants to do the controlling!! Warrior Males are not castrated nor have they committed psychospiritual suicide and.....THEY ARE NOT ABOUT TO!
Whoever or whatever is seeking the destruction of the BROTHERHOOD of MAN I shall leave to your own thoughts. There are many sociopolitical and theological possibilities regarding just who it is who is so bent on controlling males and destroying innate masculinity. The point of this post is not to identify who the destroyers are but to motivate males who still have a mustard seed of masculinity in them to STAND UP UNAFRAID and begin to FIGHT BACK! The point of this post is to get you thinking about the WARRIOR ETHOS and motivate you into not just believing in it but to motivate you to begin LIVING the Warrior Ethos in your own life! The road of the Warrior is a road of SALVATION today for MALES! The road of feminization is a road of DESTRUCTION and DEATH for males!
"The road of feminization is a road of DESTRUCTION and DEATH for males!"
But there's an alternative:
You can be saved:
The point of this post is ... to motivate those males who still have a mustard seed of masculinity in them to STAND UP UNAFRAID and begin to FIGHT BACK! The point of this post is to get you thinking about the WARRIOR ETHOS and motivate you into not just believing in it but to motivate you to begin LIVING the Warrior Ethos in your own life!
Right.
Living the Warrior Ethos in your own life will be your salvation.
Jim says:
"And that's the hardest fight because there is no center, no one adversary to go after."
Right.
But it's not so hard when you're a warrior.
Because when there's no one adversary, what you have to do is be ready to take on ALL your adversaries.
All "comers" as they say.
And the way you do that is through TRAINING.
WARRIOR TRAINING.
You learn to think and behave as a WARRIOR.
And you develop clarity.
Truth is, you don't have any choice.
I know you think you do but you don't.
It's fight or die.
Recently I talked with a young straight-identified guy who had a really HOT cock2cock experience with his best friend.
(He posted about it in New to this).
He wants more cock2cock -- as a matter of fact, he's DESPERATE to rub cocks again.
But he doesn't want anyone to know about it.
He doesn't want to give up his "straight privilege" -- he doesn't want the world to know he's bi.
We could say, in fact, that he's "dying" to hold on to to his straight privilege.
What a joke.
On him.
He lacks the courage of his own experience.
He knows what he had with his buddy.
But he wants it to be a secret.
That secret is going to come back and SMACK him in the face one day.
Whereas if he just told people NOW -- I'm BI:
I love women but I also love cock2cock --
It would all be over and taken care of in a moment.
Do you understand?
He's not a man.
And he's not a warrior.
He's a boy.
Of course he's young.
But there are many of you who are twice his age -- and more -- who are just as much children as he is.
Jim:
Get a man to question his innermost being, his values, his sense of reality, the virtue and worthiness of his existence and not only is he controllable, he'll want that control because its a way to escape the emptiness he's left with.
Yes -- that's right.
A man can only be controlled if he's been so demoralized by the attacks of such as the BFD, that he WANTS to be controlled.
Sure, you can control a man physically -- lock him up;
but as you all know, the history of the world is replete with men who've led revolutions from behind bars.
A man can only be controlled -- if he WANTS to be controlled.
A FREE MAN -- is indomitable.
Which leads then to an inescapable conclusion:
All of you are willing participants in your OWN OPPRESSION.
So I ask again:
When are you going to HONOR MASCULINITY?
When are you going to stop being an effeminized ball-less nothing and start being a WARRIOR?
When?
Bill Weintraub
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